What does he want??
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What does he want??
| Fri, 10-07-2005 - 12:40am |
I just met a guy online, he loves my pictures, thinks I am hot. We finally had a date, turned out it was fine. He said he wanted to have 2nd date with me. However, he seems never had time with me, we do not talk much(either from the phone or online chatting) He always seems busy, he said his work is very busy. (his work is not a regular 8 hours kind.) He always online late or no online, no calls sometimes. He makes me think whether he really likes me or just want to get me in bed. At same time, he keeps saying he likes me, he wants to kiss me and hold me. (One thing, he already showed his every thing in front of his webcam before we met) He didn't anything bad at our first date because I told I don't want to before we met. I told him I can't have sex with someone who is not my boyfriend, he said he wants something more than just sex. From my past experiences, I know if a guy likes a girl, usually often calls her or ask her out, or do something to impress her. But he does not. I am so confused. I don't know what I should do.......

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>>You know, it is possible for someone to miss details in an original post...
what do you mean?
He actually asked me to come to see his show at our first date, then we never got any follow up; then later he said again, I didn't say anything, b/c i don't know it's a date or what, no details come up..................
anyway i am so mess up!
Edited 10/9/2005 11:33 pm ET ET by dayaftertomorrow
I understand that.
Lets just play it out there your "relationship" with him thus far.
He's showed you his penis on his webcam. Don't you find this disrespectful???
He's must have brought up sex with you because you made mention to him that you aren't going to jump into bed right away. Again another strike against him.
And he's pursuing relentlessly.
Usually men are pretty eager when it comes to sex, and they are up for a challenge when you say things like "I don't sleep with men right away" and "you won't get me in bed" stuff like that...
I wouldn't even entertain the guy at all, I'd send him a quick email saying you aren't interested, block his emails and move on to someone that is respectful of you.
If you don't want to do that, then go out with him. I don't really know what else we can say here, I think he's being disrespectful of you, but if you think it's cute or fine or whatevers that's your call, this is your life. If this behavior is acceptable than go out with him and see what happens.
This is what I would do, I don't think I'd ever agree to meet someone that had showed me his package on his webcam, I'd figure its what he does to everyone. But this is your life, if you are still interested in him after that then go meet him.
Edited 10/10/2005 8:37 am ET ET by sniffle_sally
It is clear as daylight here.....
This guy only wants sex!
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I actually asked him whether he respect me and whether he showed his thing to other girls, his reply is yes, he respect me, he respected me on our first date and he respect my wishes; and no he doesn't show that to anyone, but only his ex gfs.
I guess he does know how to answer girl's questions. I won't waste too much of my time on him. Like I said, I'll just be invisible. Won't online to wait him won't call him. Hope he sees it no more interesting and leave me alone.......
A guy who shows his wanger on a webcam to someone he's never met, and then says he doesn't show it to anyone and everyone who's willing to look, is lying.
I never belived what he said. I also told him that, I see it as a BS.
Thanks for you all to make my mind stronger!
Just an updates: He does not contact me for 2 days now.....it's even clear what his motivation was.
I am glad I didn't go that far!
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