What next...???

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-17-2006
What next...???
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Mon, 01-01-2007 - 11:48pm

Not long ago I posted on here asking if a month was too long to wait to meet someone from the net. Well, it's been a month and the guy and I are still communicating and have not yet met - which is fine with me.

As I said in a different post, I'm proud of myself because I've moved slow and have been realistic. I like it that this guy hasn't been pushy and has respected the fact that I'm cautious.

So I'll be back in the state on the 3rd. We haven't discussed meeting but I have a feeling he's going to ask about it once I'm back. I'm wondering what to do next. I'm kind of nervous to meet him for a few reasons.

1. I've had horrid net meeting experiences before
2. He's Mr. Fitness (average looking) and I'm a little overweight (but have lost weight and work out daily. :) )
3. I don't know what to do on a "first meeting date". I don't do coffee... how long do you meet for?

I guess I'm just nervous in general. Help! What next?!

Thanks in advance. :)

Pink

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-15-2004
Tue, 01-02-2007 - 12:25am

R-E-L-A-X! & suffice it to say, if you are nervous for the date, its likely HE is too!


I dont do coffee either. I usually arrange that we meet for a drink.

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