What now?

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Registered: 05-31-2005
What now?
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Sun, 06-26-2005 - 10:55pm
Met a guy, had a great date... so what now? I wasn't going to call him, but am surprised he didn't call me tonight as we've spoken almost every night since we met... The date went well--2 hour lunch and had a lot of laughs. So should I be worrying that he hasn't called?

Kerry


If you keep doing what you're doing, you'll keep getting what you're getting... -- Les Brown

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Registered: 09-15-2003
In reply to: cl_bklynchik
Sun, 06-26-2005 - 10:59pm

When was the date??

I'd send him a little email thanking him for lunch, let him know you had a good time, and you are interested in getting together again. Then wait and see what happens...

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Registered: 05-31-2005
In reply to: cl_bklynchik
Sun, 06-26-2005 - 11:01pm

Thanks calil!


Date was today, only problem is... I don't have his email addy! :(

Kerry


If you keep doing what you're doing, you'll keep getting what you're getting... -- Les Brown

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: cl_bklynchik
Sun, 06-26-2005 - 11:09pm

Chill, girlfriend!!! The date was just hours ago!!!

Seriously, if he's interested, he'll call. If he isn't, he won't. No "worrying" necessary...what will be, will be!

Sheri

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Registered: 05-31-2005
In reply to: cl_bklynchik
Sun, 06-26-2005 - 11:13pm
LOL! It is sooooooooooooooooooooooo your turn tomorrow to be picked on in chat!!! hehehehe

Kerry


If you keep doing what you're doing, you'll keep getting what you're getting... -- Les Brown

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: cl_bklynchik
Sun, 06-26-2005 - 11:19pm

Oh darn ;-)...I have a massage tomorrow night so it'll have to wait until next week, sorry!

Sheri

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Registered: 05-31-2005
In reply to: cl_bklynchik
Sun, 06-26-2005 - 11:24pm

Noooooooooooooooooooooooo say it ain't so!!! I was looking forward to seeing you there, you're always fun to have around!


Ok but serious Sheri.. reason I am "worried" (not so much so but ya know) is because he has routinely called me every night... At the end of the date, I kissed him on his cheek and gave him a hug. I'm just hoping I didn't send mixed messages!

Kerry


If you keep doing what you're doing, you'll keep getting what you're getting... -- Les Brown

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Registered: 08-19-2004
In reply to: cl_bklynchik
Mon, 06-27-2005 - 9:16am
I've been there. I actually don't like it when guys call every day because (1) I'm not a big phone person and (2) if they suddenly skip a day, it's easy to start thinking they're no longer interested.
Try to relax (I know, easier said than done). Keep us posted.
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Registered: 06-01-2005
In reply to: cl_bklynchik
Mon, 06-27-2005 - 10:35am

I hate to be the pessimist here...but it has always been in my experience that when there is a change in behavior that it is not a good sign.

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Registered: 05-31-2005
In reply to: cl_bklynchik
Mon, 06-27-2005 - 1:24pm

He did contact me... I forgot that he had my work email! He emailed me this morning, first thing to say hi. Told me how his night went, etc. Didn't mention the date again. I let him know I had a great time and the company was great. However, he did not mention another date. I'm wondering if I sent him a mixed signal b/c at the end of the date, he leaned over to kiss me and I kissed him on the cheek b/c he had just smoked.


I don't know... The next day or so will tell me what the deal is.


I'm kinda like you Jodie... the change in pattern bothers me too.

Kerry


If you keep doing what you're doing, you'll keep getting what you're getting... -- Les Brown

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Registered: 06-01-2005
In reply to: cl_bklynchik
Mon, 06-27-2005 - 1:38pm

Well Kerri, that is sort of a positive sign.

CL-Truewild1969

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