What now?

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What now?
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Sun, 06-26-2005 - 10:55pm
Met a guy, had a great date... so what now? I wasn't going to call him, but am surprised he didn't call me tonight as we've spoken almost every night since we met... The date went well--2 hour lunch and had a lot of laughs. So should I be worrying that he hasn't called?

Kerry


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In reply to: cl_bklynchik
Mon, 06-27-2005 - 2:03pm

I think it sounds good.

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In reply to: cl_bklynchik
Mon, 06-27-2005 - 2:28pm

I totally agree.

Not everyone jumps that fast into asking for the 2nd date, I wouldn't assume he's not interested, if he hadn't emailed I would think something was weird, but he emailed the very next day.

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In reply to: cl_bklynchik
Mon, 06-27-2005 - 2:36pm

And to continue on... LOL (It's like ya'll are at work with me... Now would you help me do some work?)... He just called me at work to say hey and see how my day was going.


I'm still a pessimist though. But I'll give him until Wednesday.

Kerry


If you keep doing what you're doing, you'll keep getting what you're getting... -- Les Brown

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In reply to: cl_bklynchik
Mon, 06-27-2005 - 2:41pm
that is very nice!!! I wouldn't write him off...he does seem interested.
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In reply to: cl_bklynchik
Mon, 06-27-2005 - 3:10pm

I am not saying that he is not interested.

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In reply to: cl_bklynchik
Mon, 06-27-2005 - 3:15pm

Yeah see.. I'm thinking the same. UNLESS... I threw out some signals that weren't clear, which I have a feeling I might have... LOL


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In reply to: cl_bklynchik
Mon, 06-27-2005 - 3:27pm

It's MONDAY!

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In reply to: cl_bklynchik
Mon, 06-27-2005 - 3:28pm

I'm rolling my eyes here...not at YOU, but at this wimpy guy (if, in fact, he does think you gave him mixed signals because you didn't kiss him on the lips at the end of your first date).

I mean, come on!!! You TOLD him you had a great time and that you'd like to do it again, and you're TALKING to him on the phone! What does he think you're doing that for, for FUN??? Because you have nothing BETTER to do with your time??? He needs to suck it up and ask you out again, IMO!!!

I say he's either a wimp, or he's not all that interested. Unless you just want to be phone buds with the guy, the next time he calls, if he doesn't ask you out for another date, say "it was great to talk with you, give me a call if you want to go out again". Then if he calls AGAIN without asking you out, cut him off.

Sheri

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In reply to: cl_bklynchik
Mon, 06-27-2005 - 3:32pm

Agree with Sheri. Any man I've been involved with either asked me out before the first date ended or called w/in two days to secure the next date.

SP

 
 
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In reply to: cl_bklynchik
Mon, 06-27-2005 - 3:37pm

I might also add if the man I was dating was busy or I was out of town like Maui, he might say I’d like to see you when you get back or in my case B asked if could pick me up at the airport (I said that was ok but thanks for the offer) and asked if he could call and do it again when I was back in town. He called that week I was back in town and asked for date two.

I’ve also had men say I had a great time but my schedule is nuts with traveling etc this week but next week I’ll call you and set something up and they do. Those are good indicators. They may even call and say this, not necessarily say it on the first date or even write me an email explaining their crazy schedule but wanted me to know they were excited about seeing me again. I like that kind of enthusiasm and confidence.

On the flip if you don’t mind his indecisiveness for date two that’s cool – it’s your life not ours, ha!

SP