What she "should" be

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Registered: 04-14-2003
What she "should" be
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Tue, 01-10-2006 - 10:24am

I was a little bored this morning and decided to look at some match.com profiles. I'm so glad that men have quit dressing us up in cocktail dresses and blue jeans but I notice a new trend in the laundry list that many men have in what they want in a woman:

She "should" act like a lady when she is in public, but in the bedroom she "should" be something else entirely.

What gives? Men have the audacity to order up women' proper behavior in the presence of company but she better have the bedroom personna of a well-paid prostitute? The nerve.

Perhaps women should start requesting bedroom performances that last more than a minute and erections you can bounce a quarter on.

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Registered: 04-19-2004
Wed, 01-11-2006 - 10:09am

That saying "A lady in public and an W in the bedroom" has been around for eons.

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Registered: 03-24-2005
Wed, 01-11-2006 - 10:59am
I've been on a dating site for several years---off and on. Yes, it's Match.com but I've been on others. What I really dislike is not only what you've said about performance and how you should act---but what about them. How many times have you gone out with a man only to find he has no manners, ie opening the door, putting on your coat, not to mention tyring to put his tongue down you're throat just after dinner.
They're overweight, average looking, and dress like slobs; but they expect you to be a princess that they can dangle on they're arms. You correspond with them, then you send a picture and you never hear again. Well, look in the mirror buddy. That's why you're still out there!
Chamey--you've get it right.

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