What should I do?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-23-2006
What should I do?
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Thu, 05-25-2006 - 7:29pm

From my previous post I think some of you know that I'm in a rut with a guy.

The last time I spoke with him was last Friday. He went away for the long weekend and before our conversation ended I told him to give me a ring when he comes back. We haven't spoken since (online or by phone). He hasn't been online in a while because his computer is broken and he is getting it fixed.

My question is, should I call him?? Or is the ball in his court to call? (N.B. this guy is kind of forgetful/ short attention span kind of guy - not an excuse, but just some background info)

Please help! Thanks!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-03-2004
Thu, 05-25-2006 - 10:40pm
I recently met with a guy. Afterwards, I sent him an email to the effect that I was interested. This doesn't happen for me very often so I'm enjoying the process. Anyway, he wrote another email and it seems we're on the same page, on many levels. For my part, I just like to be upfront without being pushy, etc. I don't like guessing games and I think a lot of men feel the same. You're probably not going to know if he's interested or not without taking some risks. Like often begats like.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-28-2006
Sun, 05-28-2006 - 6:41am

He's
Just
Not
That
Into
You.

In today's world you can call from anywhere to anywhere for about a dollar, maybe less. This guy doesn't think you're worth a phone call in a week? Buh-bye.

HJNTIY. Move on. NEXT.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-07-2004
Tue, 05-30-2006 - 3:29pm
Being forgetful is not an excuse. A guy will never forget a woman he is interested in. Better to save yourself the heartache and time now...just move on. As the previous poster said, he's just not that into you.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2003
Tue, 05-30-2006 - 8:35pm
If you can avoid a guy with a short attention span please do. Why would you want to be with someone like him?