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| Sat, 09-10-2005 - 10:39pm |
I met this guy on my first internet chatroom. He seemed nice and he sent me privet message to leave chat room and chat with him on IM. He send me invite and it so easy, all I have to do is accept. We chat and exchange pictures and I think "wow." Then he say I'm beautiful and he want sex on internet with me. I never had sex, not in real or on internet. He insist and I afraid he not chat with me again so I say "ok." After all it only on internet but still it make me feel nervous and excited. He make it last more than 1 hour and I feel tingle and I cannot explain and confused.
Then he say he cannot chat next night but he give me phone number and say I call him. When I call him he talk nice then about sex and then he want phone sex. Then that night I go on internet he there after all and he want more sex. Next night he call me for more phone sex and then on internet every night. He ask for my address but he not give me his. After 2 weeks his letter arrive and he tell me how he make love to me and what he want me to do. Every night phone and internet, often he make me me laugh. I not chat with anyone else. Now he want to meet me and have sex for real. I think I might love him and feel afraid too. Now he want real sex. What should I do? He older than me. Please help. He wonder why I take so long to respond to him tonight.

Edited 9/10/2005 10:51 pm ET ET by travkitty
Please DO NOT meet this man. You deserve better for your first time than someone who preys on young women online in order to get sex.
This is NOT love.
Sheri
He doesn't love you, or care about you, or even know you well enough to have strong feelings for you.
Delurking to say -- this is a very, very dangerous situation. DO NOT talk to this man or meet him or IM or email with him again. Since you have had phone sex and cyber sex with him, he will assume you are going to have live sex. If you refuse, there is a good chance he will get angry and possibly violent. You do not know this man.
Now, the mom in me says: What on earth are you thinking? You sound very young. YOu should not be communicating with anyone online until you learn how to be safe and sensible.
How old are you? You seem very young and this is a very scary situation. There are a lot of pedophiles online who seek young women to have sex with them!
Please, stay away from this man and refrain from any further contact!!
Annapitao-
Welcome to the board.
CL-Truewild1969
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