what would you think?

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Registered: 05-27-2005
what would you think?
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Wed, 06-08-2005 - 6:13am

What would you say if a person you met from online, after sending an email saying you had a good time and wanted to see them again, took your name off their msn contact list and didn't email even though you thought they must've read your email since you did see them online? Wouldn't you think they weren't interested in you? Then you get upset that they did this and didn't even send an email, then you send a polite email saying that you didn't think you had many common interests anyway and wish them luck in finding someone, because you don't want to get a rejection email from them. That night they send an email saying that they were busy and didn't have time to respond and that you jumped the gun sending that email and wish you luck in finding someone. Remember, they did remove your name from their contact list before you sent that email.

Edited 6/8/2005 6:14 am ET ET by dream_angel2005




Edited 6/8/2005 6:16 am ET ET by dream_angel2005
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Registered: 05-16-2004
Wed, 06-08-2005 - 7:32am
Hehehe - yeah right. It's just a reaction to them getting a rejection email. They want to turn around and reject you first. Don't fall for it. Move along. This is par for the course with OLD.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 06-08-2005 - 10:59am
how do you know they removed you from their msn contact list??
I recently have had the same feeling with someone. Had a great time, I sent a thank you email, then nothing.....
He ends up sending me an instant message saying his job has been tough...blah blah, but no mention of the email I sent.
I haven't sent a "good luck" email, but I've been tempted!!
How many times did you go out with the guy??
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Registered: 09-15-2003
Wed, 06-08-2005 - 12:46pm
You can check who has added you to their msn contact list by looking under "Personal Settings" then "Privacy" then click on the box that says "View" to view who has added you to their contact list.
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Registered: 09-15-2003
Wed, 06-08-2005 - 12:52pm
Too much drama too early on...Find someone who's excited to want to go out with you again. :) This guy's loss.
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Registered: 05-27-2005
Wed, 06-08-2005 - 4:07pm
I agree, I just have to try to get him completely out of my mind. If I could just meet someone else asap, it would help a great deal. I'll keep looking.
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Registered: 03-12-2005
Wed, 06-08-2005 - 7:11pm

>>You can check who has added you to their msn contact list by looking under "Personal Settings"<<

does anyone know of such an ability to see whose list you are on in yahoo messenger?