Because you were in "real" love with this guy in your lifetime. I totally understand how you are feeling. It makes me think of "When Harry Met Sally." It's okay to have a good cry, yes, this guy has moved on, but so have you (the new guy) and hopefully in time you will have "real" love again.
That exact same thing happened to me this past spring, I knew he'd eventually get married but when I saw the announcement I sobbed all the way to work and was just in a funk for days.
Its okay to be upset and sad...just don't stay there too long.
Jodie..There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. I had a similar experience this past summer.
I dated a guy for only a few months over a year ago. I really liked him. Had real hopes for that one, but he said he wasn't ready for a r'ship...translate to not ready for one with ME. Well, he got engaged in May. Just 6 months after we stopped seeing each other. Granted, I wasn't in love with him, but it still hurt anyway.
And with everything that has gone on with boat guy recently, I too wonder sometimes what's wrong with me? How come I'm never "the one"? Sigh.
But we have to remeber that we ARE great ladies! Hugs!!!
Hey Jodie, There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. We've all been there. I cried the day I found out my ex-husband got re-married...and we'd been divorced for 15 years! There's nothing wrong with a good cry. It may just be the emotional release that you need. You'll be fine. Hugs...Michele
I agree with everyone else. There is nothing wrong with you. There are so many people who will enter and exit your life without a second thought, but there's always a few who linger in your heart, even when you think they're gone. Those are the jerks who creep up on you when you least expect it and you find yourself home, alone, crying into a bottle of Pinot and eating an entire roll of cookie dough. Be sad, but not for too long... ok?
By the way... why would his sister call you? Have you kept in touch?
I was curious about that too! It was one thing for her to say he was married, but all the other stuff -- she looks like her and the mother accidentally called her by the OP's name, was a bit over the top!! TMI, IMO.
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I don't think anything is wrong with you.
Because you were in "real" love with this guy in your lifetime. I totally understand how you are feeling. It makes me think of "When Harry Met Sally." It's okay to have a good cry, yes, this guy has moved on, but so have you (the new guy) and hopefully in time you will have "real" love again.
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Hugs nothing wrong with you.
That exact same thing happened to me this past spring, I knew he'd eventually get married but when I saw the announcement I sobbed all the way to work and was just in a funk for days.
Its okay to be upset and sad...just don't stay there too long.
Jodie..There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. I had a similar experience this past summer.
I dated a guy for only a few months over a year ago. I really liked him. Had real hopes for that one, but he said he wasn't ready for a r'ship...translate to not ready for one with ME. Well, he got engaged in May. Just 6 months after we stopped seeing each other. Granted, I wasn't in love with him, but it still hurt anyway.
And with everything that has gone on with boat guy recently, I too wonder sometimes what's wrong with me? How come I'm never "the one"? Sigh.
But we have to remeber that we ARE great ladies! Hugs!!!
There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. We've all been there. I cried the day I found out my ex-husband got re-married...and we'd been divorced for 15 years!
There's nothing wrong with a good cry. It may just be the emotional release that you need.
You'll be fine.
Hugs...Michele
I agree with everyone else. There is nothing wrong with you. There are so many people who will enter and exit your life without a second thought, but there's always a few who linger in your heart, even when you think they're gone. Those are the jerks who creep up on you when you least expect it and you find yourself home, alone, crying into a bottle of Pinot and eating an entire roll of cookie dough. Be sad, but not for too long... ok?
By the way... why would his sister call you? Have you kept in touch?
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