What is wrong with men?
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| Thu, 09-14-2006 - 3:18pm |
That could actually be the title of a book! LOL!
Anyway, this deals more with after things evolve from OLD into RL, but I'll place it in this category anyway. I've actually had 3 good dates in a row. By good date, I mean it seems that the guys (3 different ones) are into me, I'm interested in them, & they go in for the good night kiss...then...
The kiss is awful...no lips, all tongue, terribly forced for them. I remember having amazing kisses in the past with my exes & other guys I dated in younger years. Why all of a sudden am I finding men IN THEIR 30s who don't know how to kiss? It's a bummer because it's a total turnoff & I lose enthusiasm for a next date.
Has anyone else found a way to get around "the bad kisser"? And why am I finding them now, but college guys & guys in their 20s seemed to know how to kiss...wouldn't those same guys know how to kiss as they get older? Am I just hitting a unique string of bad kissers?

Well, I get so turned off by a bad kiss that I'm afraid I just walk away...so that's how *I* get around it!
But honestly, I haven't had it come up THAT often (either in my 30s or now in my 40s). I think you just hit a bad patch!
Sheri
good luck...you probably just hit a bad patch, as another poster said.
My last relationship she told me what she did and did not like about my kissing. I adjusted my kisses accordingly.
Kissing is as personal as lovemaking. Some like it rough and others .. for sex anyway. What a person likes varies as well. I find some like my kissing a LOT others.. well.
Mark
Funny you should mention this because my best friend and I had a conversation about this last night. We agreed that a really bad kisser is a deal-breaker. She was filling me in on a much anticipated first date with a guy she'd met at work and had been having this friendly and flirtatious banter with for a couple of months now. Date goes great, dinner, drinks, conversation