What is your # 1 red flag???
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What is your # 1 red flag???
| Thu, 12-22-2005 - 10:16am |
Let's list some red flags? Just for those who are new to this or need some help distinguishing between which man to date...
My number 1 red flag is-- when they are overly passionate about me. I have received several emails about how they have been looking for the love of their life, and found it when they saw my picture. And now, if I would just give them a chance, they would make me the happiest princess on the face of the earth! Blah, blah, blah!!!
I delete those messages so fast!

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My current #1 red flag is when a guy lists 'sex' as an interest or hobby.
Most of us like sex - that should be a given. If he has to emphasize it, it makes me wonder if he's obsessed with that and nothing else.
Guys who overemphasize how much they love to please a woman, how romantic they are, and don't list anything of substance in their description also turn me off. They either come across as needy and desperate, or insincere.
AJ, enjoying life with C.
guys who memorise my profile and recite it replacing my name with theirs...
I said in my profile description that I m looking for a guy who respects the environment and all the creatures and when I met this guy he lectured me about how terrible he feels for eating meat and he wanted to go back to being vegeterian... and his love for fashion and how he buys silk shirts not polyester like his friend who does not know that silk should not go into the dryer. ( I mentioned liking stylish men)
Also how unimpressed with the wine we had kuz he is "more sofisticated" than the average crowd (since mentioned upscale restaurants in my post)
I have two right now.
1. His ex-wife has a serious psychological disorder and disappeared with the kids while he was at work but she got custody of the children.
2. Must emphasize that he wants a partner that isn't cold. Baby, if your ex was cold, it was likely because you were a dud not a stud. LOL
Those biases and prejudices do come out early - that's why I always talk to someone on the phone before meeting them.
There was one guy I met online who looked great on paper, was charming and fun when we IM'd - but then we talked on the phone! All he could talk about was how much he couldn't stand Russian women, how all women are looking for someone to take care of them while they pop out babies, etc.
The clincher was when he called me by the wrong name when we ended the conversation. Needless to say, that was the end of that.
I think it is really wise to keep an eye out for those red flags, and don't ignore them. You'll save yourself a lot of grief later.
AJ, enjoying life with C.
Hi,
A big red flag is when there is a edited picture where you can see the potential date and half an arm still somewhere around him ...I don't get it why guys don't ask their best buddy to take good pictures without the former gf on it. Or better why a man stating he earns some big bucks doesn't invest in some prof. picts.
If thy wanna have a new decent girl in their life they should beginn with fotos of their new life .
If it's not a current gf it might be a sister or so ..then why cut her out ? I know it's not a big turn on to see another woman on the foto too ..but if it's family he could state it in the caption of picture. Or in profile.
A big red flag is also someone stating in his profile that he is looking for a girl that can give a lot without telling what he could give first.
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