I've come across something I just want input on..
I don't think you can really know until you meet him.
>My first thought is that if he's this busy, what makes him think he has time for dating and/or a budding relationship?
I agree with soooobig, go for coffee and see.
BUT... his computer went down for months? He owns a internet/computer company he manages. He has to be around computers to run a business like this. I smell a lie. He probably met someone, it didn't work out and he's back. Up to you if you want to overlook the lie...
Now days a lot of us have very full plates...I persoannly work full time, am pursuing my Masters, am remodeling a home and am a wife and mother...BUSY! This doesnt however mean that I dont have time for my loved ones...just that I have to manage my time and MAKE the time KWIM?
I say give the guy a chance....you may find that he is ready and willing to make time for you once you've met and even "clicked"!