What's with this one?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-18-2009
What's with this one?
Mon, 07-20-2009 - 1:46am

I've come across something I just want input on..

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-02-2003
Mon, 07-20-2009 - 8:53am

I don't think you can really know until you meet him.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-08-2009
Mon, 07-20-2009 - 9:41am

>My first thought is that if he's this busy, what makes him think he has time for dating and/or a budding relationship?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-28-2005
Wed, 07-22-2009 - 6:11pm

I agree with soooobig, go for coffee and see.

BUT... his computer went down for months? He owns a internet/computer company he manages. He has to be around computers to run a business like this. I smell a lie. He probably met someone, it didn't work out and he's back. Up to you if you want to overlook the lie...

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-30-2008
Thu, 07-23-2009 - 2:23pm

Now days a lot of us have very full plates...I persoannly work full time, am pursuing my Masters, am remodeling a home and am a wife and mother...BUSY! This doesnt however mean that I dont have time for my loved ones...just that I have to manage my time and MAKE the time KWIM?

I say give the guy a chance....you may find that he is ready and willing to make time for you once you've met and even "clicked"!


iVillage Member
Registered: 05-28-2006
Sun, 07-26-2009 - 2:06am
And if "he's just not that into me" why does he keep trying to contact me (other than the obvious)?

Don't take this wrong... but you are SUCH a female.

Why aren't the OBVIOUS reasons enough? I mean, if they're obvious, then why are you looking for the deep, hidden motivations? Isn't the fact that he's just looking for a booty call enough for you to take a pass on this one?

I swear I don't get people sometimes. You know that in the long run you're not into this guy, you just like something about the badboy thing, so you're teasing yourself.

Forget him, move on.