When they don't have a pic
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When they don't have a pic
| Wed, 10-26-2005 - 1:38pm |
How do you handle winks when they don't have a pic on their profile?
I'm so sick of it, I just send an email with a blunt "got a pic?".
Is that just too rude? I just don't have the energy to send anything more tactful.


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Same here.
But I do remember one time, this guy did email me a pic, and he was MINIMUM 600 lbs. I didn't write back after I got it, and he sent me this abusive email.
I told him "yeah, like if I weighed the same as you, you would have ever considered winking at me. Get real." and blocked.
That's so funny, no wonder he does not post a pic. he will scare all the women away! lol..
I've only taken my changes at replying when they write at least a line, not only a wink, and if they are funny or witty explaining why they're not posting a pic. Like this guy that wrote to me twice, he was insistent, he told me jokingly to take a chance and to roll the dice. I thought that was bold so he emailed me a pic and I was pleasantly surprised! He was cute and nice. I went out with him 3xs, but later he ghosted on me! This OLD world is unpredictable, but I am staying positive and I keep taking my chances. :)
They take it as a free licsense to engage in rude, hurtful behavior that why old in not for me.
Even for a wink, I would still reply. If the profile sounds good, I will ask in a nice way for a picture. If not then, I will still respond: "thanks for your interest, however upon review of your profile, I don't think we have anything in common, best of luck in your search". Good manners should always be used, too bad most folks don't utilize them, if they did the old arena would be a much better place for us all.
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LOL.Yep, and your probably right that he wouldn't.
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