when you're lonely, do you miss your ex?
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| Fri, 11-25-2005 - 7:32pm |
It's crazy, I left this man because we could only get along on a casual basis. Once things got serious, we started fighting, and several deal-breakers surfaced. I am fully aware of this, and nothing has changed. But with all the frustrations and bad luck of OLD, I find myself missing being in a relationship...sad to say, even a bad one.
It doesn't help that the break-up was unhappy for both of us, and I know that he would get back together if I called him. However, because of this, I have no intention of contacting him in any way....but I'd be lying if I said I don't think of him when I've spent too many nights by myself.
I'm going to pull myself together...make some mulled cider, clean my house. I'm having people over for dinner tomorrow, so I'll plan what I'm making and distract myself. I just wanted to know if anyone else ever finds themselves in a weak moment, & thinks about calling someone they shouldn't. let me know if so!!

According to my therapist, it is very common and normal to think of your ex when you are lonely.
Thank you for the reminder, and *blush* it would be a fourth time extracting him from my life. It took me a long time to learn with this guy. He wasn't (isn't) a bad person, he just isn't for me, and I kept trying to make him someone he isn't.
I'm glad to know it's normal, and I'll take your advice and stay busy. maybe start baking the christmas cookies early??
After I broke up with Ricky, I started thinking a lot about my ex before him, DJ, my first love and the man who I thought I would marry someday.
Do I miss my ex!! NAH. I cant be thankful enough for being out of his life. I do miss my future man lets put it this way :)