Where did my post go?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-27-2005
Where did my post go?
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Fri, 09-23-2005 - 4:10pm

Ummm... where did my post go? oh well here was my response:

My phone and rang and it was....
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message #: 10071.x in response to 10071.13
from: kae_n_me
to: cl-truewild1969
date: 4:09 pm

I agree with you, on the post concerning a potential letter to him, but this post was meerly an update and informational.
I already said from the beginning of my post that I had my radar up and I would be considering everything going on. I really didn't appreciate some of the harsh comments that a few of the posters made on this thread.

It's not like this guy is a rapist or a recovering alcholic.... We have been on three dates all went well, our fourth is tomorrow and the two that he cancelled were for legitimate reasons. I just wished he could have cancelled earlier. But I am just taking everything as it comes.

Some posters on here are so freakin' strict, it's a tell-tale sign as to why they are single.





Edited 9/23/2005 4:12 pm ET ET by kae_n_me

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Registered: 04-18-2003
Fri, 09-23-2005 - 5:53pm

Hi Kae~
I don't know where the post is and I don't know what thread it came out of (I missed the whole thing, i guess). I am curious though...why are lumping rapists and recovering alcoholics together? Are you saying that this guy you are dating isn't psycho like rapists and recovering alcoholics?

~xrg

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 09-23-2005 - 6:45pm

Oh, I just love being put in the same category with rapists.

It's the alcoholics who are NOT in recovery you have to look out for, IMO.

Sheri

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Registered: 04-18-2003
Fri, 09-23-2005 - 7:06pm

Sheri~

I was trying to hold my tongue with my question and you picked right up with what I was getting at!

I'm crawling my way through my own "90 in 90" right now. Although, I must admit some days I feel pretty dang psycho so maybe Kae hit it on the head, even though I was about to get a little righteous on her lumping us all together. :~P

~xrg

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Registered: 02-19-2004
Fri, 09-23-2005 - 7:19pm

A lot of us might come off as harsh or strict, but we are giving you the advice we think you need to hear, many times because we've BTDT.

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Registered: 09-04-2005
Fri, 09-23-2005 - 7:42pm

Kae,

As a recovering alcoholic myself, I wish you would reconsider the statement you just made. Many of us are actually upstanding citizens, believe it or not. Most people don't know I'm an alcoholic and probably wouldn't guess in a million years. We are not all bums in the gutter.

Debbie

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Registered: 09-04-2005
Fri, 09-23-2005 - 7:44pm
Good for you, xrg!! Sobriety is a beautiful thing! Keep coming back...
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-27-2005
Fri, 09-23-2005 - 8:44pm
No- I was NOT lumping anyone together I don't know who or why that was thought of. And I have nothing against alcoholics, but apparently some people are so dang harsh on men that they treat them like they are rapists or alcoholics... Some women on this board have made comments that really don't make sense and are not helpful. If you missed the previous thread then, please don't comment on this one.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-31-2005
Fri, 09-23-2005 - 9:11pm
Are you talking about your thread on the email? If that is it, it's behind these posts... look on the second page.
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Registered: 09-14-2005
Fri, 09-23-2005 - 9:22pm
It was about a phone call. And it has disappeared.
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Registered: 02-19-2004
Fri, 09-23-2005 - 10:24pm

The only time I've ever seen that happen is when someone reports a violation and the thread is removed for review by Ivillage.

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