WHO does he think he is

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Registered: 04-02-2004
WHO does he think he is
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Sun, 03-19-2006 - 6:12am

This kind of goes back to the "Doesn't call when he says he will" post. I posted a reply to that and gave an example of a guy from OLD that said he would call and then didn't.
Well, I teasingly gave him a hard time about it via instant messenger, and he "promised it wouldn't happen again." So after chatting for a few minutes he said he had to sign off, but wanted to know if he could call me. I said sure. And call me he did...FOUR HOURS LATER (at 12:30 A.M)...I was sleeping!!! I heard my phone ringing, and when I saw what it was I was so frustrated I had a difficult time going back to sleep. I felt that to be horribly inconsiderate, and extremely rude!

I'm not real sure how I'm going to handle this one, other than at some point in the near future telling him that he doesn't need to attempt to communicate with me anymore.

I'm getting back to that point where I've about had it with OLD for a minute. The Mr. Wonderful I met a week ago turned out to get on my nerves after three days. He wanted to spend every minute of my free time with me, and I can't handle that after being single for so long. And then when HE didn't call when he said he was going to, and made up a whole STRING of excuses the next day, it was a huge turn off.

Sooo, that's my vent. Thanks for listening!

M


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Registered: 04-02-2004
Mon, 03-20-2006 - 6:05pm

Thanks to all that replied! This guy was supposed to call me again last night. We were chatting online for a minute and then I told him I was getting off the computer. He asked if he could call me before I went to bed. I said sure, but as long as he did it right then, and not an hour from then. Well, needless to say, about 30 minutes later I was startled from my just getting comfy sleep when my phone rang, and it was him.

Forget it! He's been given his chances, I'm moving on. He's thrown back in the lake, kicked to the curb and taken out to the trash all at once!!!


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Registered: 03-18-2005
Mon, 03-20-2006 - 6:16pm

Woo hoo, that's the spirit.

 
 
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Registered: 03-16-2006
Tue, 03-21-2006 - 2:22pm
You have given him more than enough chances.
heather 5-18-10
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Registered: 05-31-2005
Tue, 03-21-2006 - 6:03pm
I'm with Vex... I'm all for second chances (as I stated in my first response) but now enough is enough... NEXT
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Registered: 08-22-2005
Wed, 03-22-2006 - 2:08pm
Yeah, Ive noticed that the whole online communication/dating impairs a guys accountability to normal politeness... there are just too many options. he didnt treat u right. I bet he had em lined up and he "got around to calling u" after he talked to a few others. he's just not that into you. He BLEW IT! I hope you don't give him the time of day from here on out. I wouldnt even explain it to him later...just stop taking his calls and block him. If you let him do this to you now and still stick around it just sets the stage for standards of treatment youll accept and he will do
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Registered: 04-02-2004
Wed, 03-22-2006 - 5:25pm

It just keeps getting more and more entertaining with this guy. He has been instant messaging me, and for some reason when I block him, it works for a while but then he gets back through. So he will message me, then not even wait long enough for me to respond in any way and sign off the computer. So today, he messaged me, and I told him I didn't want to talk to him. He sends me back a message telling me he wants to meet up so we can talk about a "relationship." HA!!! This guy doesn't know me from the next person, and he's trying to talk relationship with me?? I don't think so!

So then he tricked me and called me from a number I didn't know. Of course I answered and was very short with him (was also busy and in a bad mood from work), and he has the nerve to tell me a KISS would make me feel better. I told him I didn't know who was going to be kissing me, but it sure wasn't going to be him! lol

I still don't think he has a clue though...

I would just like to know when, oh when, I'm going to stop meeting the losers!


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Registered: 03-16-2006
Wed, 03-22-2006 - 5:57pm
Ugh, what a loser.
heather 5-18-10

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