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| Thu, 04-08-2010 - 8:49pm |
Hi everyone,
I have recently gone back to pof and started talking to this very nice man and we did the normal phone, text, and then date I thought things were going great well he ghosted after the first date.
I see him tonite on pof with a different screen name and diff pic what's up with that, online dating is really hard, boy o boy!
Should i call him on it or do the right thing and let it go, and move on to the next!
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Yup, it's hard.
Since it was just one date, I personally would just ignore it. There's really no answer to "why" anyone does these things, and if you asked him, I doubt he would give you the reason, if he even knows what it is. I think a lot of men (and women too) act as if they are having a really good time on a date, when in fact, they feel very lukewarm. It is confusing to the other person.
Try not to take it personally, and at least be glad this happened after date #1 and not date #12.
Yeah your right, I would have loved to have gotten to know him better but "que sera, sera" thanks for the advice.
Lisandra
I think I'm in the middle of a guy ghosting as well. I've been on 3 dates and after the 3rd, I've not had any email, text or phone call. He did say he was going out of town but he has a blackberry that is attached to his hand like an appendage. As in the words of HJNTIY, if he's not calling you...
It is disappointing, as I really thought things were going well. We had great chemistry and seemed to be on the same path in our lives. If I don't hear from him this week at all, then I'll know for sure he's not interested, and not just busy. I thought I might send him an email later on in the week to ask how things are going, but now I'm not so sure. I really don't want to deal with another disappointment of not getting an answer.
Hi jorgee,
just wanted to know how your doing? Has he gotten in contact with you? I wish you all the luck in the world!
Have faith your sidekick will come along.
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Had a nice time and we're playing it by ear for the next few weeks. I'm thinking this is the way I should have been approaching dating all along! Much less stressful!