Why is that?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2005
Why is that?
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Mon, 10-17-2005 - 12:55am

This guy I met online, we met for the 1st date after talked for couple weeks, he said liked me, wanted to have 2nd date, wanted to start a serious relationhip, he was online every day, called me couple times a week, even imed me said missed me if we didn't talk for a day, our last chatting online was on Monday, he wanted to see me in webcam, and I didn't let him even after he said please please. After that, I've never seen him online for one sec, he never called me, he just DISAPPEARED!! Friday afternoon I emailed him, asked him what's up with him, haven't heard from him for couple days, and told him if he didn't want to talk me, I would not bother him. he replied me around 12am at night said he's been bussy with his works and not getting any easier. One sentences. Thats all. I replied him not work too hard and good luck with his work. No reply. I called him on Sunday night, no answers.

I don't understand why guys would disappear on the girl after he told girl how he liked her, he wants more, blah blah?? Does that mean he wants to stop? and he's seeing other girls??

Anyone can tell me what would I do??

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2005
Mon, 10-17-2005 - 5:10am

I wouldn't take anyone who doesn't want to meet IN REAL LIFE seriously at all. Forget about him.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-19-2004
Mon, 10-17-2005 - 7:29am

Because some guys say things and don't mean it.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2005
Mon, 10-17-2005 - 9:13am

Hi Day,


May I ask what nationality you are?

CL-Truewild1969

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2005
Mon, 10-17-2005 - 10:40am
Exactly! Thats why I always told them (including him) I'v never really believed on what guy's words, I only see actions. And time will tell!! But doesn't matter whether I told them that or not, they still acts the same!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2005
Mon, 10-17-2005 - 10:46am

Thanks for your advise. It's been helpful!

I dont' know why I would be the target! I am a normal girl, dress normally, talk normally, nothing can make them think that way! I told them I am not into sex (maybe thats why?) But not all the guys I met like that, few of them. And I am Asian.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2005
Mon, 10-17-2005 - 11:00am

Men are just that way....they see someone that think is easy to manipulate.

CL-Truewild1969

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2005
Mon, 10-17-2005 - 11:54am

I have no ideal where I show them I am easy to manipulate! Maybe I look Naive?! But they are wrong :)