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|Thu, 11-07-2013 - 10:29am|
Well I contacted a guy on a free online site last night which I hardly ever do. I haven't really done OLD in quite some time and I don't really ever expect it to work out--in fact I forgot that I had even contacted some people until I got a message this am. but when I read the message, it was disappointment. It was something like "Oh I just met someone & I want to see if things work out with her before I start dating someone else." Now my first reaction is if you are dating someone else, why are you on the site that day? I do suppose they could still be communicating through the site email, but I doubt it. Usually after you start actually dating, you have the other person's phone number, right? so I assume the guy feels it's a nice white lie, better than saying nothing or sorry, I'm not interested in you.