Why cant Carlos just be a jerk?
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Why cant Carlos just be a jerk?
| Tue, 03-27-2007 - 4:47am |
We have been talking maybe twice a week - platonically.
| Tue, 03-27-2007 - 4:47am |
We have been talking maybe twice a week - platonically.
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Easy - stop calling him.
I never understood this - if you break up with someone because you have different wants and expectations you don't go from THAT to being buddies - sorry, one or the other wants more. Your secretly hoping he changes his mind but that's not going to happen. The guy isn't going to be hanging out with you and your new BF during the weekend and the new BF will not appreciate it.
I can tell you this, if my BF
Peanut,
For some of us-it's easier said than done. She's emotionally attached and that could take time to let go. Not all of us can cut ties so easily. Why is there a problem with wanting to be happy-even if it's spending time with someone you don't love-but enjoy? Lighten up alittle bit.....until your happy with yourself.....
I agree with SP that stopping contact with him for the time being is a good idea. Until you're completely over him, it's best for you not to be in touch with him. He's NOT a jerk, that's why you liked being with him so much, but he doesn't want the same things as you so that's why you had to end it and that's why it's hard to be friends at THIS point (at some point in the future, once you're over him, you'll probably be able to handle it with no problem). Why put yourself through the pain?
Sheri
I stand by my opinion – this post she wrote proves it
Ok- i will try to take your word for it that this ISNT mean to be mean, harsh or judgemental ... b/c it sure comes off that way.
"I never understood this - if you break up with someone because you have different wants and expectations you don't go from THAT to being buddies - sorry, one or the other wants more" - I dont agree with this. If I break up with someone b/c they are a jerk, not a good person, etc - then most certainly,
Thanks Sher.
Thanks for your words & understanding. Same as to Sheri, take a peek at my "explanation" in my response to SP.
We can respectively agree to disagree on this issue as your initial post proves my point and you can’t now talk your way out of it, you still have those feelings for him but oh well, your life not mine!
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