Why can't some guys take the hint?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2002
Why can't some guys take the hint?
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Wed, 03-09-2005 - 10:33pm

OK, HERE'S why I hate sending "no thanks" emails. A guy that is WAY not my type sent an email on matchmaker. I sent a reply saying "thanks for the email but I think we are looking for different things." I didn't feel the need to elaborate, why should I point out the "flaws" and the specific reasons that he is not a good match for me (OBVIOUSLY one that did not read my profile very well). So he responds back with "Really? What are you looking for that I don't have?"

I didn't answer and blocked. Whatever. When you get the nice rejection letter, please just stop at that!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-31-2004
Thu, 03-10-2005 - 6:36pm

So he didn't word it exactly how you wanted it - still said the same thing. I would have given him the list of why you're not a match and then made sure I blocked this time.

Lisa

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-16-2004
Fri, 03-11-2005 - 5:54am
After my last nastygram, if I ever give a reason or even a polite farewell I think I'll put the block up as well.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2005
Fri, 03-11-2005 - 12:06pm

vexer....


No matter how you cut it.....a rejection is a rejection!

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