Why is he so desperate!? What do I do?..
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Why is he so desperate!? What do I do?..
| Sun, 01-01-2006 - 9:22am |
I am dating a guy from New York City - meaning I live 3 hours away from him - we have been talking to each other for a very long time now and he always begs me to come down to see him. I am never able to go though because I am still living with my parents who are strict just like they were when I was younger. What should I do when he tells things like "If you really care and really love me you will be here today." I just freeze thinking...how am I going to get to him without a driver's license. I have no idea if I should just leave and go to see him or not. I asked to come over here to see me but he wants me there first. What should I do? Do I forget about life and just go? Or do I make him upset.... What should I do?...
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| Sun, 01-01-2006 - 10:06am |
Personally, I don't do ultimatums, and the guy seems like he's pretty controlling and you haven't even met yet. There is no reason for him to be demanding that you somehow get three hours away from home without your parents support and without a driver's license. This does not seem like a situation you want to get into. I'd forget about him and move on.

| Sun, 01-01-2006 - 10:44am |
I have to agree with the other poster. From what you shared, he sounds manipulative, demanding, and something just doesn't feel right. If he wants to see you so much, he could go to you. I wouldn't invest much effort there. I think you may want to find a friend closer to home.
| Sun, 01-01-2006 - 12:29pm |
I totally agree with both of the other posters...I would forget him.....he seems very manipulative and controlling to me as well.
