Why is life so unfair?

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Registered: 02-01-2005
Why is life so unfair?
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Thu, 06-29-2006 - 10:20pm

This guy randomly IM'd me tonight on yahoo (I get a lot of aviation types doing htat, based on my profile). We've been talking for two hours. He an Air Force pilot, my kind of hot, and a virgin. Sob.

And he lives in Delaware.

And is going into the reserves and moving to Colorado.

I *know* you can't have chemistry with someone you've never met, but darn it, if he was in town...








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Registered: 02-20-2006
Thu, 06-29-2006 - 11:04pm

I don't buy the virgin part but yeah, sometimes life does suck...lol.

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Registered: 02-01-2005
Thu, 06-29-2006 - 11:09pm

Well, since I'm one, it's not all that hard to believe that he's one. Not that I care if he is or not, but I'm always looking for men who are ok that I'm one.

Surprisingly, there's a lot of those on yahoo personals, but there's no chemistry...sigh.








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Registered: 11-05-2003
Fri, 06-30-2006 - 6:12am

I've had 2 LTRs that started online & they were both virgins when we started dating...one was 25 at the time & the other was 27. Of course, the younger one is now 33 & STILL a virgin. Long story. LOL! The other one is not a virgin anymore *wink*.

Annie

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Registered: 08-16-2004
Fri, 06-30-2006 - 8:51am

Believe it. Four of my guy friends were virgins before they got married. And one is getting married tomorrow. I never really asked them why they waited, even with their fiance's. Like the guy tomorrow has been with his g/f for about 3 or 4 years. Why they never have is beyond me. He's a pretty big Catholic so that could be it. He was telling us last weekend how they are just going to stay in bed the whole week of their honeymoon. And these aren't ugly, unsocial guys, these are GOOD looking guys. The guy getting married tomorrow could be a model. Just goes to show you don't automatically judge people, some people surprise you. When I have a bad date or a bad relationship and start thinking all men are pigs etc. I think about my guy friends and know there are good ones out there. Too bad I see them more like brothers than potential boyfriends.

Stacey