Why won't anyone respond?!?!

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Registered: 05-25-2003
Why won't anyone respond?!?!
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Sat, 04-16-2005 - 11:26am

I tried match/yahoo a few years ago and I had pretty good repsonses....I ended up dating a guy for 1 1/2 years that I met on yahoo.....we broke up last summer...he broke my heart....I thought we truly loved each other and had a future together...but his head is/was messed up....enough of him!!

I'm trying to move on.

I did yahoo for a month....emailed @20 guys..and no one responded....it's basically the same profile I had up 3 years ago and corresponded/dated a few guys!...the same thing is happening to me on match right now....I put in @12 emails this week....NADA...

I do not believe I am hideous...lol.....I think I am a good catch....I didn't write about a broken heart in my profile...trying to stay positive....I am "full-figured"....but I am also writing to "large/stocky/etc" guys!....

Anyone have any words of wisdom?....I did have luck a few years back! This is getting to my ego!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 04-17-2005 - 12:42am

I agree with Sheri that some of your other pics, other than the one you have as the main one are more flattering. I especially like the purple sweater one ... Also agree with her on what your first paragraph should look like. Write more about yourself and cut out that stuff about good guys being married, etc. You've got to think that there are LOTS of available men out there in your age range, because there are ... and just give it some time. Sometimes it takes a while.

Or, you might also want to try YAHOO or some of the specialty sites. Here's one: http://www.bbwpersonalsplus.com/index.html and here's another: http://www.abundantlove.com/

Good luck!

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Registered: 01-12-2005
Sun, 04-17-2005 - 11:10am

kneesinthebreeze....


Adrian Paul does absolutely nothing for cl-Pianoguy.


ALEXANDRA PAUL (an actress).....hmmmm........maybe?


PG

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Registered: 05-25-2003
Sun, 04-17-2005 - 10:12pm

I did some shuffling....added some photos.......changed the opening paragraph....it should be all up and running in a few days...

BY THE WAY....one guy had contacted me....gave me his full name...said he was in local politics...I did what every computer-savy woman would do...I GOOGLED HIM....read about the day he was selected....and that he lives in town WITH HIS WIFE.....adios...

Another guy contacted me yesterday...didn't have a lot of free time..but said he would write more on Sunday...I replied, "Looking forward to hear from you"...and no response yet.

Thanks for the advice, sheri...and the others who agreed with her :)

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