will meet on Sunday for 1st time

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Registered: 02-13-2006
will meet on Sunday for 1st time
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Wed, 02-22-2006 - 10:23pm
hello..it's me again.
well we were suppose to meet today but he told me that he had to go in to work.Well we did chat a little bit more and decided to meet this sunday instead.I have to tell you guys that I have NEVER done anything like this and that I'm just taking it 1 step at a time.Also to make my life more stressful, my ex called me yesterday.I didn't recognize the number so I picked up and said hello.He then talked to me and it was too much.I hung up on him.I have been trying very hard to just move on!!I'm doing that by trying something new with this online meeting thing.BUT I have also decided that after Sunday,...I won't do this again due to the fact that I felt extremely nervous and scared to meet this person.I don;t mean scared in a bad sense..but you know.
Anyways..I'll let you guys know how it goes(if it goes) :)
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Registered: 10-17-2002
Thu, 02-23-2006 - 9:15am
Good luck on Sunday, but I think you backing off the online thing for a while is a VERY good idea. Look at how the ex's call affected you! It stressed and freaked you out. To me, that means that you are not yet over him or the situation. It's not that you're not trying or that you won't be. But this is so fresh - you really need to get your life in order and get to know YOU again before trying to move on with a new relationship. Please, please take a few more months - I'm afraid you'll wind up getting hurt or into a rebound relationship which is not the healthiest place to be in.

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Registered: 02-25-2006
Sat, 02-25-2006 - 3:00pm
Yeah, meeting people in person does produce a lot of pretty overwhelming feelings sometimes. Too bad stupid ex had to call and throw you off.
I know I'm waaay over my last ex, but a phone call from him would still piss me off/annoy me/possibly upset me. Especially if I had other things on my mind and wasn't expecting himto pop up.
Hope your meeting goes well and just play it by year! I don't think it's necessarily a bad sign that you get worked up about meeting someone in person. It's a big deal!