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Sun, 06-25-2006 - 10:50pm

I have a question and need women’s prospective. I have been meeting some nice women through friends and parties. However, recently I have been communicating with some women online(myspace ) The problem is obviously, what is proper etiquette for meet women online. Girls are asking me when we are hanging out, but I don't feel right asking them for their address. It think it would be wrong to ask any lady where she lives online even if we were chatting for a while (and if she asked me I would feel reluctant too)? Am I wrong? I wouldn’t be surprise if other guys ask. How do most people do it? I’m new to this kind of thing, how does this work? Thank You.

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Registered: 02-01-2005
In reply to: johnstine
Sun, 06-25-2006 - 11:04pm

Are you talking generally, or specific addresses?

Myself, I don't tell people specifically where I live. I live in a large metropolitian area, so I don't have much of a problem telling people where I live in general. I do not give my exact address or even an intersection (the intersection thing seems pretty common in my area). I do live in a huge development inside my city, so that's as specific as I usually get. I wouldn't be offended or anything if a guy asked where I lived, as long as he was ok with my limits. In fact, because I live in such a huge city, knowing where the other person lives is important. There are men in my city who live so far away, I could very easily drive two hours to meet them.

I don't usually tell them where I work, either. Even the name of my company gives it away. Way too risky.








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Registered: 06-08-2006
In reply to: johnstine
Sun, 06-25-2006 - 11:17pm

I was confused because if you don't know each other specific address how can you meet? If you were to meet at a bar it would hard to have any intimacy (just a little) which will make it feel like you are meeting a friend, and will ruin the chemistry. For example,me and my friend’s sister went out for on a first date and after words went back to my house. We ended up kissing a little and that made the chemistry good .If you don’t have a place to do that, the chemistry will be bad because you will both go home after the date, like your buddies.

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Registered: 03-16-2006
In reply to: johnstine
Sun, 06-25-2006 - 11:45pm

Hi and welcome to the board.

heather 5-18-10
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Registered: 03-16-2006
In reply to: johnstine
Sun, 06-25-2006 - 11:50pm

In fact, here's a post you

heather 5-18-10
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In reply to: johnstine
Sun, 06-25-2006 - 11:54pm

I TOTALLY do not allow a man I don't know to know where I live. And that's not just online dating, it's if I met him anywhere, even at church. It's simply not safe.

With your friend's sister, I'm guessing you knew each other before you went out. COMPLETELY different.