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| Sun, 06-25-2006 - 10:50pm |
I have a question and need women’s prospective. I have been meeting some nice women through friends and parties. However, recently I have been communicating with some women online(myspace ) The problem is obviously, what is proper etiquette for meet women online. Girls are asking me when we are hanging out, but I don't feel right asking them for their address. It think it would be wrong to ask any lady where she lives online even if we were chatting for a while (and if she asked me I would feel reluctant too)? Am I wrong? I wouldn’t be surprise if other guys ask. How do most people do it? I’m new to this kind of thing, how does this work? Thank You.

Are you talking generally, or specific addresses?
Myself, I don't tell people specifically where I live. I live in a large metropolitian area, so I don't have much of a problem telling people where I live in general. I do not give my exact address or even an intersection (the intersection thing seems pretty common in my area). I do live in a huge development inside my city, so that's as specific as I usually get. I wouldn't be offended or anything if a guy asked where I lived, as long as he was ok with my limits. In fact, because I live in such a huge city, knowing where the other person lives is important. There are men in my city who live so far away, I could very easily drive two hours to meet them.
I don't usually tell them where I work, either. Even the name of my company gives it away. Way too risky.
I was confused because if you don't know each other specific address how can you meet? If you were to meet at a bar it would hard to have any intimacy (just a little) which will make it feel like you are meeting a friend, and will ruin the chemistry. For example,me and my friend’s sister went out for on a first date and after words went back to my house. We ended up kissing a little and that made the chemistry good .If you don’t have a place to do that, the chemistry will be bad because you will both go home after the date, like your buddies.
Hi and welcome to the board.
In fact, here's a post you
I TOTALLY do not allow a man I don't know to know where I live. And that's not just online dating, it's if I met him anywhere, even at church. It's simply not safe.
With your friend's sister, I'm guessing you knew each other before you went out. COMPLETELY different.