would he think I was crazy?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
would he think I was crazy?
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Thu, 02-24-2005 - 4:12pm
I was supposed to have a 2nd "meet"/date with a guy tonight but the weather was if-y. Yesterday we emailed back and forth - basically saying we'd wait and see. Then this morning he said he was still game to get together unless there was a blizzard. Earlier this afternoon it did start to snow heavy and school were closed. So I emailed him saying I was leaving work early and we'd have to reschedule due to the snow. Well now it's stopped and the roads are completely clear. Can I contact him saying I'm still interested in tonight or just stick with the reschedule thing??
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Registered: 07-24-2004
Thu, 02-24-2005 - 6:28pm

I think if the roads are clear, you should probably try to re-open the issue.

Linda
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 02-24-2005 - 7:05pm
thanks, I definitely don't want him to think I'm avoiding him but I also didn't want to seem desperate. So I think I'll call him later and chat on the phone and reschedule.
We'll see.
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Registered: 10-26-2004
Thu, 02-24-2005 - 11:27pm

Hi Donna,

Total agreement with Tammy. I would probably contact him so that he knows, as she said, that you are not avoiding and Do still want to meet. I might not try to get together tonight though, I might re-sked. Don't be surpised if he suggests moving it to another time, as he might want to start the process over and not change plans again.

Men FEAR change..really! Even small ones!

Good luck and 4-1-1 us on what you did! Hope it turned out the way you wanted it to!!

truly,
Cupcake

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 02-25-2005 - 7:26am

I called him about 8p and we talked for about 20 minutes or so. Great conversation. He is so easy to talk to it's scary. Anyway, he said to let him know my schedule for next week and we'd do something then. I'm away this weekend so that was out. I'm alittle excited but not too much, as we all know!

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Registered: 10-26-2004
Fri, 02-25-2005 - 9:40am

Hi Donna,

Great move! I guess I think it is better to move the date to a new, neutral playing field. I would Not think that he made other plans that quickly, more that he just did not want to go through another "change'.

Karma feels like you all will get together and it will be fun and relaxed! Hey, why not move to Texas?--we have sunshine, you Don't have to shovel it off the driveway!!!

Best o the best, and keep that little glimmer of Hope alive, it is what drives us all.

Truly,
Cupcake