would women want to date me?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-04-1999
would women want to date me?
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Fri, 10-14-2011 - 4:47am

i'm thinking of trying an online dating site, but i wonder how much a lot of women would be interested in me.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Fri, 10-14-2011 - 11:35am

As far as the car I think it depends on where you live.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-24-2006
Fri, 10-14-2011 - 8:22pm
I have dated guys like you, and my current boyfriend is legally blind and can't drive. I do think it will be harder for you to find someone who won't care about it.

One piece of advice I can give you is if you don't already know how to cook, learn. One guy I dated for a couple of months who was on disability would have me over and cook for me and we'd watch a DVD, and I thought it was really nice. We'd also go for walks, and eat out occasionally at cheap hole-in-the-wall places with really good food. Art walks are another fun idea for a cheap date, and many larger communities have them.

Don't worry too much about it. The guy I used to date I am still friends with and he dates plenty of women. Most of them don't care about his employment status. He's a really good guy and that's the important thing, ultimately.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-07-2007
Sat, 10-15-2011 - 7:41pm

ok so now you have put out that out there but didn't say what you had to offer.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2010
Sat, 10-15-2011 - 8:06pm

Hi,

Just want to say that contrary to what some people think, being on disability doesn’t = being poor and pathetic.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Sat, 10-15-2011 - 11:33pm

You make a lot of good points here--there are a lot of people out of work or working at less than ideal jobs nowadays.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-04-1999
Sun, 10-16-2011 - 6:13am

i am self sufficient, and proudly so.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Sun, 10-16-2011 - 10:12am

I find this interesting because my son has a seizure disorder--he is only 16.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-04-1999
Sun, 10-16-2011 - 2:53pm

hi musiclover.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2010
Sun, 10-16-2011 - 3:15pm

It's all about how you see yourself is how a woman will see you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2010
Sun, 10-16-2011 - 4:41pm

mancreature, you brought

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