would you date a guy like this?
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|Tue, 07-27-2010 - 10:58am|
I do not want to offend anybody on this board with this post, so please forgive me for what I'm about to write about and ask for advice.
There's this guy on POF who contacted me a couple of weeks ago. I read through his profile and the profile is filled with spelling mistakes, poor grammar, etc. I wrote back to him that we would not be a good match together.
He wrote back to me at a later time a longer email talking about his family and how he would come to NYC next month to see me. Again, the email was written kind of poorly, but you can get the idea what he's trying to say.
Just before, I was on this site and he wrote me another email, asking me why hasn't he heard from me; had I been busy lately?
He's cute looking, *supposedly* a firefighter (most of his photos has him in uniform), and he lives in Upstate NY (I'm in NYC). Under the section of the site where you list down your "smarts", he just has "N/A". If he was a firefighter, aren't you supposed to have at least some college education? Then again, he's from a small town in Upstate -- maybe they don't require it???
I'm thinking he may be mentally challenged or something. I'm not perfect either, but I get this fear that he may be a scammer? I could understand a few typos in his profile or emails, but it just reads like as though he's never gone to school.
Ok, I'm being lured by his good looks...I'm tempted to write back to him, but something else is telling me I better not and ignore his great looks.
What would you all do in this case?
I apologize if I offended anyone.