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| Thu, 03-02-2006 - 4:30pm |
Hi again. OK. When last we left, online "favorite" who I have been emailing back and forth with (twice in immediate succession)for few weeks, was making me wonder why we hadn't talked. We finally got to the point that he gave me his number and we agreed to talk the next night. He works over 50 hrs/wk. right now. To date everything he has said has checked out. I have been hesitant because I have kids and I didn't think he would want to date someone with kids. We didn't end up talking that night. We talked the next night. We talked for 45 min. and I asked him about the issues of dating someone with kids after a while. His response was plausible (usually they don't want kids again, etc) and led me to think there was something in his past.
Anyway we emailed again today. I responded to his last one from last night and was surprised that he immediately responded (he's at work after all). I asked about the fact that we were getting snow and we got playful. VERY innocent. Snowmen etc. He made a "naked" comment that I retorted was quite...... considering we haven't met but went back and forth a few more times still innocently, intelligently playful. He got the message. I think we are both taking it slow....maybe that was a guy test of some sort. Do I wait now for just phone interaction and meeting now? I'm being myself and I think he is too but you don't know....until you know. I am also scared because I haven't felt a genuine connection to anyone like this. Any thoughts? Experiences?

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No, no, no, I'm saying it sounds like sexual incompatability has been an issue for you so you're afraid of it happening again. I have rarely encountered it, so it's not really a concern of mine.
Sheri
I don't think I'm not "open"...in the context of a relationship, I'm *very* sexually open (and it's not just me thinking that, I've been told that by men I've been involved with). But I do draw the line at discussing sex with someone I've never met...to me, that's just not appropriate. I know that line is not for everyone, but I don't like having people assume I must not be open or that I'm uptight about sex because I draw that line. I'm not...but I do think there's a time and place for that, ya know ;-)?
Sheri
"Man Boobs?!" Yikes!
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