Wow!

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Wow!
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Fri, 12-23-2005 - 12:06am

That's the first time I've said that in a very long time about a guy I've met OLD.

I've hooked back up with a guy I had chatted with from Match.com back in the spring. We had e-mailed for a couple months then, but never progressed to phone chat or in person, and it just kind of died off.

Well, we started chatting again a few weeks ago, and this time, he got up the courage to ask for my phone number. He called me on Sunday, but I didn't hear the phone ring, so I missed it (and I'm not the kind of girl to run and call back). I e-mailed him that I was sorry I missed his call, but to try again. I was all ready to write him off, b/c I hadn't heard back from him, and then he called tonight...

And we talked for almost 3 hours!!

He has the best personality, and we have so much in common. We talked like we'd known each other for years. And then at the end of the conversation, he asked me out for after Christmas!

I can't believe that once I stopped looking so hard to find someone to date, that a good candidate just kind of fell in my lap!

So, I'm officially cautiously excited, b/c he's the first guy I've even thought about going out with since my disasterous summer fling with the guy I worked with. So I guess my heart's not quite so broken after all!

Wish me luck, girls!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-18-2005
In reply to: cj311
Fri, 12-23-2005 - 11:12am

Good luck and please think positive thoughts; it seems so many gals go in with an idea it won't work out before even meeting. If it doesn't then you cross that bridge but I believe if you go in with a positive attitude that will shine thru on your date and will allow you to be yourself rather then guarded!!! If he can't see how great you are then NEXT as there will be others, trust me.

Enjoy...

SP