Wow again

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Registered: 09-27-2004
Wow again
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Fri, 10-27-2006 - 2:07am
Well, I had such an amazing 3rd date with this man that I've been talking about. He made the night very spectacular for me. I just think that things are just going so well and get worried that things are just too good to be true. But maybe they aren't and this is what it should be like who knows.......I feel a great connection to him and I'm crossing my fingers that this continues. This is such a great feeling to have and I'm hoping it doesn't end. It just feels so comfortable and so right to be with him that I can't really explain it. But I'm wondering if it seems too good to be true is it?? Ok, leave it to me to throw a question or negative connoctation in there. I've just had the absolute worst luck with dating this last year that it amazes me that things can go this well. Maybe it's the good luck coming around for me to balance out all the bad luck I've had. Heck even if this only continues for a short amount of time then at least it gives me hope that there are men out there that I can feel a great connection with and feel very comfortable being myself around and be attracted to them all at the same time.
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In reply to: biochic2004
Fri, 10-27-2006 - 6:10am

Throw caution to the wind & ENJOY!

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In reply to: biochic2004
Fri, 10-27-2006 - 10:51am

That's awesome! I hope it continues to go well!

It's giving me some hope (:

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In reply to: biochic2004
Fri, 10-27-2006 - 12:05pm

That's great! I'm glad it's continuing to go well. But there's nothing wrong with retaining a certain amount of healthy skepticism--as in, "he seems great and I'm having fun, but time will tell".

Sheri

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Registered: 09-27-2004
In reply to: biochic2004
Fri, 10-27-2006 - 2:30pm
Thank you all for your well wishes. I think I will keep a healthy skepticism on this but in the meantime just enjoy myself and it does give me hope that I met someone that I really click with. It's been one year since I've been excited and felt like I clicked with someone on more than a friendly level. So even if it's not a long-term thing I can always remind myself that these men do exist and online too!
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Registered: 03-27-2004
In reply to: biochic2004
Fri, 10-27-2006 - 7:20pm

You go biochic! The only thing I've found that is a really early red flag of those who will turn out to be unreliable is if they push you too fast. Hopefully he's not doing that (pushing you to get into bed too fast, acting like he's your bf too fast, big presents for no reasons, calling every day, 5 times a day...)

You maintain the pace of the relationship and keep us posted. This sounds great!!!

Chick

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Registered: 09-27-2004
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Fri, 10-27-2006 - 8:33pm
He's not pushy at all. He's very considerate and tells me that he wants to go at a pace that I feel comfortable with. Very sweet guy. In fact he's very shy to kiss me and be physical with me. He hasn't even mentioned anything with reference to sex at all. Very much a gentleman. I do hope that one of these days though we can get to that point where we can move past the kissing phase but definately for now I'm good with just getting to know him, feeling more comfortable around him in a more friendly way before going into the physical stuff. So really no red flags at all with this guy so far which is awesome.