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is this wrong?
| Mon, 09-19-2005 - 7:30pm |
I met him first on Thursday then on Sunday we ended up at my place (he offered to help with my network issues at home)
so we sat after and chatted for about 2 hours and checked internet sites for cool stuff...
then just after I told him it is time for me to go to bed, he gets closer and we make out.
Nothing more. It is only the second time I meet him but I find him v. attractive and interesting man.
Is it too fast?
I read the thread about having sex so I know your opinion about sex. but I m just curious about kissing and touching. When did you normally expect this to happen if there is any specific time for this. (like after 5 dates ...)
so we sat after and chatted for about 2 hours and checked internet sites for cool stuff...
then just after I told him it is time for me to go to bed, he gets closer and we make out.
Nothing more. It is only the second time I meet him but I find him v. attractive and interesting man.
Is it too fast?
I read the thread about having sex so I know your opinion about sex. but I m just curious about kissing and touching. When did you normally expect this to happen if there is any specific time for this. (like after 5 dates ...)

It’s whatever YOU feel comfortable with not me or everyone else.
I can only give you guidelines based on my experiences. Sure I’ve made out on a second date but will I do that in my next encounter, probably not only because I’m at a point where I truly want the guy and I to build a friendship first and foremost. I may change my tune down the road but how I feel at this point and time in my life, no. I usually (not always) don’t kiss on a first date either – give them something to dream about, wink!
If your fine with it then that’s all that matters. If you have had good results even better; I wish I had better results with making out/sex early on but also those are not my cards, sigh. I get too blinded and ignore red flags so this is safer for me.
Good luck with the new guy!!!!
Peanut