WTF!!!! I am so irritated!

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WTF!!!! I am so irritated!
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Mon, 01-30-2006 - 9:40am
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Edited 2/1/2006 3:47 pm ET by kae_n_me

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Registered: 04-19-2004
Mon, 01-30-2006 - 10:25am

Honestly it seemed like a set up. THat he never intended to meet up with you and so he put the entire burden of getting in touch with him on YOU. Give me a break, he could have told you FRIDAY night what time he would be coming on saturday and if he was delayed, I'm sure there is a 7/11 around with a payphone.

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Registered: 11-01-2005
Mon, 01-30-2006 - 11:23am

Yeah - that seems really fishy to me. He could borrow a friend's phone, send you an e-mail, find a payphone...

He could have made an effort to contact you.

The fact that you've dated since September makes this especially frustrating. He should have enough respect for you at this point to at least be honest if he doesn't want to get together.

Uncool.

AJ, enjoying life with C.

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Mon, 01-30-2006 - 11:35am

Absolutely agree with the others... is he so dependent on his cell phone he can't think of any other way to get in touch with you?


Here's the other thing I don't understand though. Why were specific plans not in place when you spoke on Friday? If you spoke on Friday and have a Saturday date, why should you have to call him at all on Saturday? Either you've arranged a time & place to meet or not.


To me this is

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Mon, 01-30-2006 - 11:47am
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Edited 2/1/2006 3:48 pm ET by kae_n_me
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Registered: 04-14-2003
Mon, 01-30-2006 - 11:57am

Generally the police don't lock people up that aren't causing some sort of trouble. Is this the type of man with whom you want a relationship?

I'm wondering what sort of interaction he chose to have with his ex.

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Registered: 10-17-2002
Mon, 01-30-2006 - 12:20pm

OK, this all sounds a little far-fetched on his part to me. First the phone going out thing and then his ex "getting him locked up"?!? I agree with chamey, yes, while occasionally people may be locked up in error, usually the police have SOME reason or justification for doing it in the first place even if it turns out later to be wrong. Sounds like an ugly mess to me.

As for the messages, I think one message would have been sufficient. And what kind of explanation are you expecting? He was in jail and didn't use his one phone call to call you to break the date. Yes, you need to think long and hard if you want this drama. Sounds like a lot to take on.

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Mon, 01-30-2006 - 1:18pm

Gotta agree again with vexer on this one... people don't just "get locked up" for no reason.


I have full custody of my son too... and my ex is very low class too LOL...

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Registered: 04-19-2004
Mon, 01-30-2006 - 1:43pm

ITA!

First he set up the whole situation that the OP was going to be responsible to finding him and continue to call because he might not be readily available and his phone doesn't work that right there sounded like a set up to me that he knew he wasn't going to be available to go out with her. NOw there is the big story about him being in jail.

Even if he was in jail, sounds really shady and I don't know how much I'd want to be involved with someone that has an ex willing to do that, or worse what did he do to deserve being locked up.

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Registered: 10-05-2005
Mon, 01-30-2006 - 2:09pm
If he texted you, he obviously has his cellphone back and has listened to his messages. Why didnt he just call you once hearing your messages? Or why wouldnt he call you as soon as he got out of jail?
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Mon, 01-30-2006 - 2:54pm
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Edited 2/1/2006 3:49 pm ET by kae_n_me

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