Yeah, yeah, you read it right

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Yeah, yeah, you read it right
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Sun, 04-17-2005 - 11:17pm

Rather than hijack the other thread, I'll start here... in answer to niceguy and whoever else might be wondering:

(ME) >>I'm a 5'5 woman currently seeking women 5 ft - 5'10<<

(NG) Um... was the seventh word in this sentence a typo? :) If so, yer giving up on guys for a while?

Yup, for now, at least online. Only because I haven't found a site that offers a search under "seeking partner, gender unimportant". I am bi, always have been & probably always will be, I can pursue a relationship with a man OR a woman as long as we are generally compatible. Historically I've mostly been involved with men, which to me is just a numbers thing: there are more straight men than there are gay women. I tried the OLD guys for a while, took a month off & I'm trying again with girls this time. If what you're doing isn't working, try something else, right?

So I've emailed a few times with a woman who *seems* too fabulous to be true (I know, don't get my hopes up too much, right?) and we've agreed to the coffee meet but haven't arranged a date/time/place yet. I've got her number but can't call because my phone is dead & I left the charger at work. (I am SUCH a doofus!)

Side note: One nice thing about the women seeking women: those who are just looking for NSA booty calls will come right out and say so. I'm amazed at how many state right up front that they're married or with bf's, looking for a 3rd to share. Uggh. Thank goodness for Match's "block from searches" feature! I've blocked about 70 so far and that's just within 15 miles.

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Registered: 11-08-2003
Sun, 04-17-2005 - 11:43pm

Hi there,

I'm pretty much a live and let live kind of person. I wish you well and hope you find what you are looking for in a partner.

Cheryle