Im sorry because it sounds like a put a guilt trip on you for your natural feelings about guys...I did not mean to do and do not feel bad for saying you liek tim mcgraw and I have issues dealing with stuff like that. I just like to get how I feel out there, even if it is immature and irrational.
The out of your league comment though...are you saying that the majority of guys you think are really attractive are guys you wouldnt date?
I had an interesting conversation with my friend from school. She has a major crush on a guy in another program and I told her after watching him for awhile, he just wasnt that appealing...good looking, but not appealing. She wondered why and then asked if he was out of her league and I said no. Then she asked if she was out of his league and I said no. She gave me this look like how dare you say that. But my reasoning is that if its a match, its equal. Nobody is out of anyones league in a partnership because they are a match.
Find your match. If theres a girl that doesnt match you, then who cares on whether or not she's out of your league?
Well Im currently trying to pursue a girl who is WAYYYY out of my league I mean she could be a model but she seems really interested in me and she seems like shes great but she could do better honestly so I dont think this would be a good match at all...one of the reasons Im considering not trying to pursue her...shes too good looking she should be dating Brad Pitt or somebody lol
Sweetie -- after reading all of your posts, I've come to the conclusion that you need to love yourself a little more! I am sure you are sexy and cute and hot in your own way. That's what is so cool about attraction -- different things are attractive in each person. We're all sexy and hot in our own ways.
That's why I listed Chow Yun Fat as one of my favorite guys -- he's not the "typical" guy that most women find attractive. He's just got something inside him that seems to shine on the surface.
Never, ever say that someone is "out of your league." She may look like a model - but that doesn't make her better than you. If she has a good heart, she will see the good things about you and she won't be condescending and witchy just because she's cute.
You are selling yourself way too short. I have a feeling you are much better looking and more attractive as a person (personality, body language and all the other non-physical stuff) than you believe yourself to be. Now, we just need to figure out how to get you to believe it. Once you believe it, everyone else will be attracted to your positive vibe. :)
I know I cant be as bad as I think I am but at best I am just an average guy. I am currently trying to change that if you read the one thread where I posted I am trying to get some steriods. But I just wish I had some amazing quality about me. So many people have nothing to say about me...I am just blah, I am kinda boring and not exciting and I dont know how to be interesting to other people(other then being interesting because I am so neurotic).
Maybe I will wake up one day and it will all be gone...
And I have seen a therapist...3 actually. I have gotten better in the last few years, but to become completely better I am going to have to do it myself and thats that. I am having a hard time going out and meeting women.
I mean I get intimidated by how attractive a girl is or the other guys out in public. I am just intimidated by others.
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Im sorry because it sounds like a put a guilt trip on you for your natural feelings about guys...I did not mean to do and do not feel bad for saying you liek tim mcgraw and I have issues dealing with stuff like that. I just like to get how I feel out there, even if it is immature and irrational.
The out of your league comment though...are you saying that the majority of guys you think are really attractive are guys you wouldnt date?
I had an interesting conversation with my friend from school. She has a major crush on a guy in another program and I told her after watching him for awhile, he just wasnt that appealing...good looking, but not appealing. She wondered why and then asked if he was out of her league and I said no. Then she asked if she was out of his league and I said no. She gave me this look like how dare you say that. But my reasoning is that if its a match, its equal. Nobody is out of anyones league in a partnership because they are a match.
Find your match. If theres a girl that doesnt match you, then who cares on whether or not she's out of your league?
Sweetie -- after reading all of your posts, I've come to the conclusion that you need to love yourself a little more! I am sure you are sexy and cute and hot in your own way. That's what is so cool about attraction -- different things are attractive in each person. We're all sexy and hot in our own ways.
That's why I listed Chow Yun Fat as one of my favorite guys -- he's not the "typical" guy that most women find attractive. He's just got something inside him that seems to shine on the surface.
Never, ever say that someone is "out of your league." She may look like a model - but that doesn't make her better than you. If she has a good heart, she will see the good things about you and she won't be condescending and witchy just because she's cute.
You are selling yourself way too short. I have a feeling you are much better looking and more attractive as a person (personality, body language and all the other non-physical stuff) than you believe yourself to be. Now, we just need to figure out how to get you to believe it. Once you believe it, everyone else will be attracted to your positive vibe. :)
AJ, enjoying life with C.
I know I cant be as bad as I think I am but at best I am just an average guy. I am currently trying to change that if you read the one thread where I posted I am trying to get some steriods. But I just wish I had some amazing quality about me. So many people have nothing to say about me...I am just blah, I am kinda boring and not exciting and I dont know how to be interesting to other people(other then being interesting because I am so neurotic).
Maybe I will wake up one day and it will all be gone...
And I have seen a therapist...3 actually. I have gotten better in the last few years, but to become completely better I am going to have to do it myself and thats that. I am having a hard time going out and meeting women.
I mean I get intimidated by how attractive a girl is or the other guys out in public. I am just intimidated by others.
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