2 WEEK MARK TOMORROW

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Registered: 07-03-2003
2 WEEK MARK TOMORROW
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Thu, 11-03-2005 - 11:25am
So the guy I met on my birthday, which will be 2 weeks tomorrow never called me. When I told my friend who was there she was surprised that he didn't, because she thought that he seemed really into me, well she tried giving me all these excuses like lost the number, forgot your name, etc., anyways the thought of maybe i can text him came up, i just don't know if i should give up and just get it in my head that he's not that into me, or the thought that the phone does work both ways....maybe i can text something like'do you have plans for tonite, we're going out somewhere, do you want to meet us', hm..i don't know, ah the feeling of rejection......what do you guys think, that or just forget about him and have fun with my friends tomorrow....i don't know it's just that he said how he didn't want to bother me because he knows i'm busy....

 

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Registered: 09-01-2005
Thu, 11-03-2005 - 11:38am
I'm not sure of your whole situation but it seems like saying "I don't want to bother you because you're so busy" is awfully similar to when a guy says "I'm busy". I guess it wouldn't matter if you text him or not, but if you know he knows how to get a hold of you (he has your number and your name), I don't think I'd be inclined do anything more.
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Registered: 11-01-2005
Thu, 11-03-2005 - 2:33pm

Its been two weeks? Oh honey...NEXT!!! He would called by now.

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Registered: 11-01-2005
Thu, 11-03-2005 - 2:59pm
i think you should just go out and have fun with ur friends, really forget him. Look at this way why is he trying to suggest that u are busy maybe u dont mind being bothered, it seems to me he probably is not interested and ofcourse never see is a bad thing quite frankly when a guy is not acting like he is interested in me i totally cut them out and i always think its their loss. So really just go out have fun with ur friends because if he was that interested he would have tried to get in touch, forget him he is not worth waiting for. Sometimes when u ignore them thats when they come after you, so u just never know


Edited 11/4/2005 1:26 pm ET by princessjeje
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Sat, 11-05-2005 - 8:49am

He's not interested.