? 4 Guys but all opinions welcome.

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Sun, 03-25-2012 - 1:07pm

Guys, why would you:

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Sun, 03-25-2012 - 1:28pm
I've had women put plans off like that and then cancel in the end. It pisses me off! The ones who do it repeatedly are just plain inconsiderate!
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Sun, 03-25-2012 - 2:51pm

See that was going to be my next question to the ladies. Why would you allow someone to treat you this way? I have an old girlfriend I completely burned bridges with for this very reason. I certainly wouldn't allow a guy to treat me this way. I can't relate because if I think there's even a chance I can't make it or even make it on time, I'll come right out and tell them. At that point, it's up to them whether they take a rain check or not.

Along those same lines, if a guy asks me to become exclusive and I don't want to, I don't. At that point, they can either keep dating me, knowing that I may or may not date others, or move on. Why would I become exclusive with someone when that's not what I want?

I'm confuzzled.

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Mon, 03-26-2012 - 5:14pm

Example A.

dragowoman

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Tue, 03-27-2012 - 11:17am

Thanks for throwing me a bone, X.

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Tue, 03-27-2012 - 8:58pm

She needs to retrieve her power.

dragowoman