Advantages of Being Single
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|Sun, 09-18-2011 - 10:44am|
since most of us want a relationship ( me too) there are still advantages of being single to a degree.
I was reading some of the other boards on divorce, kids,low libido, sex, abuse, problems in relationships, etc.etc. and then I thought..Wow;; I have none of those problems right now..
I dont have to worry about sexual dysfunctional men because I dont have to partner with one like that.. So I can find one who hopefully will suit me sexually. I am reading where couples masturbate and use vibrators while their husband or wife or partner is lying in bed right next to them. The partner is not engaging in any sexual activity with their own mate.. How sad...
I can spend money the way I want .. I dont have to share bills with a man and he cant tell me what to do with my money.When I read about men who spend a ton ofmoney on themselves and leave their gfriends or wives bankrupt I cant imagine..
I dont have to clean a man's house or deal with his small children or adult children.Go to their graduations or weddings or meet their relatives on holidays...
I can come and go as I please and not have to wait around for someone to ask me out or go somewhere with me. I go on my own and answer to no one.
I dont have to worry about the man's ex wives and if he is paying child support or alimony and wondering if he is visiting his exwife behind my back and having sex with her.
Dont have to worry about a man gambling or drinking or cheating on me because if I do meet someone I will grill him to the point of knowing he does none of these things.
The list goes on and on.
Of course its normal to have someone in our lives and we all on