Ah! What do I do!

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Registered: 03-21-2004
Ah! What do I do!
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Sun, 04-09-2006 - 10:06pm
So, for the past few months I've been checking out this guy I see every couple of days. The last time I saw him, actually introduced himself to me. I might see him around tomorrow. How do I play this? I am so bad with this stuff...


Edited 4/11/2006 11:53 pm ET by buggie10
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Registered: 11-21-2005
Sun, 04-09-2006 - 11:46pm

For the purpose of this exercise we'll call this guy "John."

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Registered: 03-21-2004
Mon, 04-10-2006 - 7:38pm
ah, I am such an idiot. I've seen this guy twice this week and though I've tried to position myself to chat with him again, he hasn't allowed me the opportunity. I feel like such an idiot for thinking that this really attractive guy would be interested in me. I mean I am so mad at myself right now for not knowing better!


Edited 4/11/2006 11:54 pm ET by buggie10
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Registered: 04-04-2006
Mon, 04-10-2006 - 7:53pm
Tell him you are interested in social time. He'll take that to mean you are interested in him, or he'll try to get out of it because you came on first. It will work at some point if he does the first move. Just the same, it is OK for a lady to make the first move. Nothing ventured, nothing gained, and if he has to be the one to make the first move, than you are dealing with a person with issues anyway. Maybe too macho, could be a controller, who knows? He could be a great fellow, just old fashioned. Mid-West maybe??