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| Sun, 12-04-2005 - 2:01pm |
Hey lady!!
I didn't know you were a cl here too. Man, I am gonna post here from now on. MMMM-HMMMMM!! Caught ya!! *just kidding* I was scrolling around looking for a new board, decided to post and POOF, look who I found. With you here, I know this is a fun place.
I am going to re-post a thread I posted on another board. I would love some opinions about it:
So, then me and 3 other co-workers go out on Thursday night. I left school late and when I got on the freeway, it was snowing and bumper to bumper traffic. So I am an hour late getting to the hotel, they leave without me, give me a map and I get so very LOST trying to find the bar, but I found it after like an hour of lost driving. It was a piano bar and it was fun. There were five of us, me,TS, RH, KE and TE (KE's husband). So we have drinks (I only have one cause I am not a drinker and since I had to drive and am black in a white neighorborhood, I didn't want the cops on my @$$) So we have fun right, but KE has to go to the babysitters and pick up their child. TE (KE's husband) STAYS AT THE BAR WITH US. Um, okay no problem-o....
So, he calls his friends and they come down and he says, "hey let's go down the street to Tonic" Tonic is a nightclub. So we go (Me, TS, RH and TE and his friends) we hang up our coats and get drinks. They head to the dance floor, I get my drink and sit down, the rest of the crew, go to the dance floor. So one of TE's friends says hey, let's dance,I say okay and we head to the floor. I get to the floor and TS is dancing with TE (KE's husband, but she left to pick up the baby) RH and I are dancing with TE's friends...
I turn around and next thing I know TS is BUMPING AND GRINDING WITH TE (KE'S HUSBAND, YES THAT'S RIGHT) He's grinding on her butt while cupping her boobs, I pull her aside and say, "what are you doing" she laughs and says "he won't let me go" TE pulls TS back on the floor and they start bumping and grinding again, next thing I see is TS AND TE KISSING and TE shoves his hands down TS's pants!!(no, she didn't stop him) Yes, that's right TS was making out her friend's HUSBAND (right in front of me)....
So, I grab RH we go to the bathroom and soon TS follows us and says, "he wouldn't stop, he wouldn't leave me alone." I said to her, "the first time he touched you, you should have told him to stop" She kept saying, I tried, but he wouldn't leave me alone. I said, well what are you going to tell KE?? So while TS and RH talked, I went up to TE and said to him, "Look player, I am not trying to be up in your business, but that's your girl's friend and you shouldn't *sh* where you eat ya know. I am no mary sunshine and believe me, I gets mine like everyone else, but I wouldn't go NEAR my friend's man and they better not touch me. KE is your wife and no matter what, you have to honor that. Is what you are doing worth what you are about to lose??"........
He says: "we haven't been happy for awhile, we are only in it for the baby, we're unhappy, she wouldn't work, she doesn't understand me, I like to go out and have fun and she doesn't, we are both really young and at this point I don't care anymore..."
So, I said, you have to learn to look ahead and realize that what you did here will cause you a lifetime of problems. So, I walked away from him. Then TE went over to talk to TS and after that we left. We go to the hotel, talk about it some more, decide to tell KE in the morning...
We see her at an in-service and TS takes KE in the hall and tells her the story. KE goes into someone's office and just cries and cries. Then she starts making calls to family and lawyers and her bank, cause she has now decided to leave TE...
They have been having problems for a long time and he has been staying out late and lying to her about where he's been for quite some time, BUT THAT IS NO EXCUSE FOR WHAT HE AND TS DID. So, I got the feeling that TS told KE the story like her husband just "hit" on her and not that she was dang near "plucking" him on the dance floor...
(sorry this is so long)So, I am just perplexed the entire in-service cause I know TS made herself out to be the victim when SHE WAS A WILLING PARTICIPANT!! So KE, calls me at about 10 last night and says, "R, tell me the truth, what did you see" I told her exactly what I saw and I said, from my vantage point, TS did not appear to be resisting TE, they were both into it. KE just starts balling. She says, I knew something more happened cause TS keeps changing the story. I told her I was her friend and anything she needed (sans money cause I am broke this week) I would be there for her...
So, I get the feeling that TS feels like I sold her out. But, KE asked me what I saw and I wasn't going to lie to her. So basically, TS may have been the "slutty straw" that broke the camels back. I mean we all have to work together and now there's this thing hanging over our newly formed friendship. YEESH!!
Oh and in case you are wondering they are "under 25" (KE just turned 25)
I told TS, be who you want, DO who you want, but you just don't touch your girl's man. That's all I am saying. I had to tell her what I saw and I can't forsake one friend for the other. But dang, yall, it's like the young and the restless up in my school.
Who says teachers are STUFFY!!!
GT34
P.S Oh and after all that drama I got stuck in a two hour traffic stand still because there was a fatal accident. I mean my goodness!!

I've been here for four years, girl! You're slow! ;-)
I found out last week at Bunko that there's all kinds of adultery going on in my district.
*well, better late than never*
I mean really how bad is it going to SUCK at work from now on. If they both continue to work there, I can't see them every speaking again. I wouldn't trust her. She had to have known better. I honestly can't believe she didn't. Then I get the distinct feeling she's mad at me for telling what I saw. Sorry, I had to be honest. If it were the other way around, I would have done the same thing. Oh well!! Did I tell you that I was also in charge of the holiday celebration. I hope it goes well. Any ideas??
GT34
Hey, you weren't the one getting felt up on the dance floor, so go about your business like it's a normal day.