Ahhh...the joys of dating
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Ahhh...the joys of dating
| Sat, 02-25-2006 - 4:25pm |
So the guy I met last Sunday did call- on Tuesday- to make a date for tonight.
| Sat, 02-25-2006 - 4:25pm |
So the guy I met last Sunday did call- on Tuesday- to make a date for tonight.
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I knew you were excited about the top you bought, so I wondered if he said anything. I have no doubt he noticed though, that's inevitable. :-)
Yeah, I'm thinking he probably noticed.
Yep, what the hey!
Well yes then, I'd certainly say so. :)
As for the "definition of insanity", I totally agree. If it's not working, try another route. Sounds good!
I certainly would not call you crazy and we all have some similar concerns before a first date. But there is a part of your post that I don't understand: Wonderful. A guy who wants to spend money on me. Kinda makes me a bit uncomfortable, ya know?
I mean, it looks like English and I have never known you to write in a foreign language, but I just don't understand that.
Wow - sounds intriguing. You said that there were a few kisses - so, how were they? Is the chemistry there? OK, I am going to stop now because I haven't read the rest of this thread yet and I am unsure of what you might have told us already.
>>friend of mine says absolutely not to call him, but she has men falling all over her. She can play aloof and not worry about another one coming along soon. Not so with me. <<
You might have had men interested in you in the past who were just afraid to say something or show it. Don't just assume that it's always the other woman that the men want -- I guarantee sometimes it's you.
I do agree that you should show interest and not be too aloof. However, if you try to have the mindset that you are amazing, hot and wonderful and that you could get any man you wanted, that confidence level will radiate to everyone around you. It will make you all the more attractive to him and to other guys when that confidence shines through. (I'm not saying be cocky, just play positive "records" in your head to remind yourself just how worth it you are).
From your account of the date, it sounds like things went really well. So, go with that. Savor that for a bit, and let the rest happen. I do empathize with the anxiety - we have all been there. But, remember that you are absolutely worth being chased and don't talk yourself out of that. This guy will hopefully know a good catch when he sees it. :)
Good luck and keep us posted.
AJ, enjoying life with C.
Jules, you're funny.
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