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|Sat, 07-05-2003 - 9:52am|
Problem is he is an alcoholic in my eyes.. He recently got his 2nd DUI and is in the process of losing his license. Last night I told him I how felt about him. I told him that if he didnt drink so much then we would probably be together. I then asked him if he thought he had a problem and he said YES. Which is a good start!! But when I asked him when he was going to do something about his problem, he said , "When YOU tell me that you want to be with me" I then told him that I couldnt because of his drinking.. Then he asked me if I could "Help him" Only HE can help himself, but I did tell him I would be there to support him when he decides what to do, but until then we can not be in a "romantic" type of relationship.
Am I doing the right thing? I have always been the type to want to "help" my boyfriends in any way.. But I think that this is a LOT to handle.. I do know that if he didnt drink, we would be together..
Any suggestions and comments are appreciated!