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| Tue, 10-11-2005 - 7:54pm |
I broke up with my first seriously relationship about 6 months ago. We were friends before we started dating, and we recently started talking again as friends. He was emotionally abusive, controlling, and a real jerk in the relationship, but as a friend he is done of those things. I keep my friendship secret away from my parents because they dislike him very much. We both aren't in relationships at the moment, and he has mentioned something about having a relationship again, but I hope he was kidding. I will never have a relationship with him again, ever. Should I continue this friendship, or do you think something will end up happening. We've only hungout a couple times as being friends, but we haven't hungout for a long time. We're suppose to hangout this Saturday, I just don't want anything to happen physically.
Thanks for the help.

Kcole
My advice- drop this guy as a friend. He's not worth your time and I'm sure you can make friends that wouldn't turn into abusive boyfriends given the opportunity.
I agree.
So don't let it happen. Don't get closer to him than what makes you comfortable, and if he even looks to try anything, then politely tell him no. Make it clear to him that you just want to be friends, and nothing else. And if he asks why, remind him why you broke up in the first place. If he really wants to be friends with you he will understand that.
Good luck.
Janet
I am going to be as blunt about your situation as I can, get out now. Don't go back to him a second longer. He hurt you once and TRUST ME he will hurt you again. I have been where you are going and it is not something you want to have to deal with all over again.
Get some good sense, girl :)
Megan.