Am I reading too much into this?

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Registered: 12-09-2007
Am I reading too much into this?
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Sun, 12-09-2007 - 2:51am

My job requires me to travel around alot. And the last time I was in Country A, this coworker of mine took me out for dinner, we had a great time chatting and mingling. We decided to do it again next time he is over in my country.


Few months passed, he dropped me a note asking me if I was

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Registered: 12-07-2007
Sun, 12-09-2007 - 12:16pm

This is pretty blunt but I think the questions should be, does he like you for more than just sex? And do you want him to like you for more than just sex?

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Registered: 07-13-2007
Mon, 12-10-2007 - 3:49pm

""""And the last time I was in Country A,""""


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Without being nosey . .sounds like serious distance issues. Is this stop over sex? Even if it were possibly serious . . what do you see happening regarding being in different COUNTRIES? LoL

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Registered: 08-21-2007
Tue, 12-11-2007 - 8:43am

'..We then had dinner together over a bottle of red'.


Something that I don't quite get there: you are talking about having shared a bottle of red wine, WITH dinner? As in, you had half a bottle of red wine? You got that drunk on half a bottle of red wine?? OMG.......... I need to slow down on my drinking. Half a bottle of red wine won't even begin to touch me... with dinner? It'll feel like I've been drinking juice lol.


Anyway, from what you are saying, it doesn't sound like the cuddling and handholding were necessarily signs of him showing his interest or being a gentleman

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Registered: 12-09-2007
Tue, 12-18-2007 - 12:47am
Woah, thank you guys
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Registered: 12-09-2007
Tue, 12-18-2007 - 12:54am

Oldjarhead,


Hmmm it's not as serious as it might sound, for one thing, we are not in any sort of long distance thing (fling/romance/relationship or whatsoever). Was stopover sex he was after? If so, I am afraid he would end up very disappointed with me cuz I am not for one who would offer him such special treat, nor do I expect him to treat me 'this' way when I am over his country.

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Registered: 12-09-2007
Tue, 12-18-2007 - 12:59am

"Something that I don't quite get there: you are talking about having shared a bottle of red wine, WITH dinner? As in, you had half a bottle of red wine? You got that drunk on half a bottle of red wine?? "


I had down 2 glasses before the dinner (empty stomach)