And people wonder why I dont have friend
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And people wonder why I dont have friend
| Wed, 11-30-2005 - 5:24pm |
Many people I know (some acquaintances mostly females and even relatives) wonder why I don’t have male friends to go out with or to hang out if Im a friendly, easy going, pretty lady to hang out, and indeed that is the truth, I have 0 male friends. Now Im beginning to understand the reason why I don’t have male friends something that it is not my fault. The guys I have met before, I mean former coworkers, or other guys I have run into in my life etc they just want to get laid with me, so they are not interested in really to know me as a person, they just want to satisfy their male ego by getting laid with me because Im a attractive person. I mean that is why I don’t have male friends because they only look for sex in me and I don’t want that from a guy. I mean if men only think of me for sex, how will I ever meet a good friend? If that is the case I will never ever have friends. I have more than 29 yrs old.

when a man is attracted to a woman..he will want to have sex with her..period...not necessarily any kind of relationshop...that may or may not coem later,it all depnds..usually when guys are older maybe 30 or more,then yes settling down sounds good..but otherwise.ok,men want to have sex with women they think are hot...you can`t,AND I REPEAT...can NOt just hang out with a guy,and think he is just going to want to hang out like friends..that is why women have GIRl friends,to do stuff with...do you not like sex,or being with men? nothing wrong with that,but are you that naive to think men just wanna hang out have a drink and not try anything?
This website will explain everything:
http://www.laddertheory.com
So you say that a woman cannot have a male friend because guys dont make friends with girls? So if I see a bunch of woman and man on a mall, to put an example, hanging out together, that means they are having sex and they cannot be just friends?
Im sorry but there are guys, that are not gays, who really become good friend with lady and there is no sex involved at all because they only intend to become good friends and they can become friends for years.
So if a guy is just hanging out with a lady is just because they are having sex not because they can be good friends and hang out (movies, bars, dance, etc)?
There are girls out there who have male friends just to hang out and there is no sex involved at all.
>So if I see a bunch of woman and man on a mall
>to put an example, hanging out together, that
>means they are having sex and they cannot be
>just friends?
You don't know what the situation really is or what they are thinking.
>Im sorry but there are guys, that are not gays
>who really become good friend with lady and there
>is no sex involved at all because they only intend
>to become good friends and they can become friends for years.
Nobody is disputing that. What we are saying is *IF* the man is attracted to the woman he will want more than just a friendship.
>So if a guy is just hanging out with a lady is
>just because they are having sex not because
>they can be good friends and hang out (movies, bars, dance, etc)?
You are confusing the issue. We are NOT saying that a man can only be a friend with a woman if he is having sex with her. We are saying that a man can be friends with a woman and NOT want sex if he is NOT physically attracted to her. There is a simple test (described in the website) to prove whether this is true. Most men would fail.
Be honest starlettos, if you met a man that was really hot and had a great personality would you want to only be friends with him? Falling in love with a friend is the oldest and most common story of heartbreak in the dating world.
What in the heck are you thinking?
How could anyone possibly put any value on something published on a site called "stupidness.com" and obviously written by a 12 year old boy whose only intimate relationship is with his hand?