Another reason girls say no
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Another reason girls say no
| Sat, 05-06-2006 - 2:04pm |
Guys, you know how you sometimes complain that you can't get a girl to give you the time of day, or give you a glance when you're out?

Right on mark !!! I totally agree about that. Your post made me realize that to have insecurities is totally natural after all we are human. But when it totally rules our ability to enjoy or interact that is when we need to do something about it.
Tell me overall did you enjoy the party?
I am beginning to realize the same thing. Yesterday I was playing volleyball with my friends and a YOUNG co-ed group came to join us. There was one girl who, for whatever reason, did not look thrilled to be on the court. She played okay but neither talked loud nor giggled like everyone else. Often she just arched her back and held her arms together....
On a related thought, I should learn how to make myself approachable. For example, lately, I begin to say hi differently. At first, it was unconscious, but it felt pretty good when I elongated it and finished it with a higher pitch....
I had fun...except for the part when the fight broke out and someone threw a chair and it hit me.
Cool!! that you enjoyed the party. About the whole chair thing I am so sorry about that. Hope you are doing ok? Did it hit you really bad?
You know I also do the same thing . I am not able to talk to the opposite sex. I have an accent that makes me think probably I will sound funny . Otherwise, if I am with friends no body can compete with my talking capacity.
How funny insecurities are?
Do you seriously think that every woman is confident about everything?
Why don't you find a country dance club that has lessons and go for a few weeks. I wasn't much a choreographed dancer until i took country line dancing. I was more a freeform dancer(including help from a strippers pole). I took country line dance lessons and learned the jitterbug. I am 38 and i still plan on taking more ballroom and latin lessons soon.
Because I have no desire to learn.
Good luck.