Approaching This Guy

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-08-2006
Approaching This Guy
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Mon, 04-10-2006 - 1:46pm

All right, I met this guy about three weeks ago, and he approached me. He ask me what my name is and he then introduced himself, but I wasn't interested at all, so I kind of brushed him off. But now I think I want to talk to him, but I don't know how to approach him. What should I do?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-02-2005
Tue, 04-11-2006 - 1:20pm
What do you mean by "Brushed him off"? Have you been ignoring/avoiding him since the introduction?
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-13-2006
Thu, 04-13-2006 - 7:44pm

You brushed him off? Now you changed your mind?

You should have gotten it right the first time, forget about it, guy's have sensistive egos and if you brushed him off he probably has a bad impression of you so if do you try to approach him...be careful

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-10-2004
Fri, 04-14-2006 - 4:39am
I don't think that it's as bad as you guys made it sound. I got asked out by a guy (via email) and I told him thanks but no and didn't give a reason (reason was that I thought I was going to leave the country a week later and didn't want to lead him on). I thought it was a bit awkward at first, but it's not so bad. Now I'm in a different country half the world away and we still exchange short emails.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-13-2006
Fri, 04-14-2006 - 7:49am
Well I guess I'm just sensistive to the whole 'brush off' thing.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-01-2005
Fri, 04-14-2006 - 8:14am
What's different now that makes you interested?