The Aproach & older Men
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The Aproach & older Men
| Wed, 09-14-2005 - 11:39am |
I Would like to know how ladies like to be approached?.
I have tried several different approaches and some work better then others.
I am an older man. I still want to have a family which means I am looking for a younger woman. When a woman catches your eye and lets you know she may be interested with a little eye contact, a few to many brushes walking past you etc... what is the best thing to do?
I try not to let anyone know where I work because that leads the convo in the wrong direction and I try not to let on about any of my financial prospects. (it just invites trouble)
What is the best course of action for meeting a young woman?
I am confident and rejection is not a big deal anymore...
Any ideas?

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I also grew up poor- lived in the projects for a year, then lived in a house where the roof was falling in.
Hi Shyone,
I agree with most of what you had to say.
I have returned home and ran into some old friends. I was beside myself that they were still running around to the bars chasing the young ladies... I was like grow up, right...
It really made me think.
I did not conceder dating younger woman until I moved south. I know it sound stereotypical but, most of the ladies here are literally married before the are out high school!?!?!?!? argh.... I had set my age limit at 35 for awhile, then dropped it to 32, then 30 and now 25. There is a larger availability of single the younger the age... I have found that the younger woman are MUCH more fun... They are more willing to do spur of the moment things, try new things, etc... and I am not talking about between the sheets... lol..
Congrats on your teaching career! My sister is also an educator. A very respectable career.
Well I have to go...
I'm just curious, shy... what's the maximum amount of years older that you'd go?
I prefer to date men who are 5-15 years older than I am but I do date men near my age and even a little bit younger. I do find, however, that I am drawn to older men. Part of that is physical attraction - I love salt and pepper hair. Part of it is emotional - men older than myself don't have the emotional maturity of a 12 year old. A very large part of it is intellectual - older men have had more time to read and form opinions, etc.
Now this is a generalization - of course some older men are sad, pathetic, emotionally retarded paople and of course there are some younger men who are really well rounded and established. Since I don't want to have children, I find that this is less of a problem with men who are older. Many of them do not want children if they don't already have them by their early to mid-40s.
That being said, it really frustrates me when men play around and then get serious about a family late in life and then want to date younger women. They have the ability to do that but it is a lot more difficult for women who have a tougher time getting pregnant and then take on the majority of the child rearing burdens. I am still well in my child rearing years but any older man who wants to date me because I have a viable uterus is going to be gravely disappointed. An older man who wants to date me does so because I am intelligent and articulate and pretty darned stable.
You know what?
My max age at this time is 36, and that's pushing it.
47? Really?
The thought of that just makes my skin crawl.
Just some food for thought - I know a guy who's
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