argue & fight....do I really want a relationship?
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argue & fight....do I really want a relationship?
| Sun, 09-02-2012 - 6:15pm |
Every time I think I really want a relationship....one of my friends r/ship hits a rough spot and it reminds me of why I DO NOT want a r/ship
I think of the make up sex, but is ti really worth it?
Sometimes I just don't know.
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It depends. I think it's sometimes like networking for a job. If you tell people you're interested in meeting someone, they might know a guy who is single. But it also depends on whether your friends/family will taking into consideration what kind of guy you want or just set you up with any old single guy. I don't think any of my married friends really know any single guys anyway so I wouldn't bother--and my few single girlfriends are looking for a guy for themselves. But my cousin was fixed up by her uncle's SO with a guy she worked with. They did go out for 2 yrs so it was a pretty good fix up--she ended it because I think she wanted to get more serious and at least proceed toward getting married but I think he liked the status quo of just dating.
Heather and Shy, I don´t broadcast either. I wish I could announce to friends and family that I really, really want a boyfriend, but it sounds a bit desperate and I have been letting on for years that I enjoy being single. But, perhaps I should change my "outward attitude" in case it actually helps?
I have had dates that did not have any chemistry from my side - friends set me up and I think it was mostly the fact that the guys were single too. One of them did not even make me laugh just a little bit, and a common sense of humour is one of my biggest "hang-ups". My friends know that!